New here and I need some help.

[coffeepetals]

Hello! I'm new here but I'm also new to dd/lg and I need help, I'm embarrassed to ask but how do I start properly into dd/lg and how do I explain to my boyfriend? ;-; sorry if this is a dumb thing

[ButterscotchBunny]

Its not a dumb question! We all started somewhere. :3 I'm very inexperienced myself, but I think its important to discover what parts about dd/lg interest you, what you would like to try, and what you wouldn't like. 

 

Its might be difficult to explain it to your boyfriend. There are a lot of people who just aren't comfortable with a dd/lg relationship, and you can't force them to one. I think a lot of people had better luck by taking it easy and slowly introducing dd/lg aspects. oh! and try to avoid stuff like "I have this weird things I'm interested in..." and instead try and sound more confident about it. If you look around the forums I'm sure there are other stories from people trying to get their non-ddlg boyfriends involved, and those might help you. :3 Though I will warn you, it doesn't always go over well, but I hope it works out so you can be happy. <3

 

Oh! and welcome to the forums! ^w^ 

[coffeepetals]

Its not a dumb question! We all started somewhere. :3 I'm very inexperienced myself, but I think its important to discover what parts about dd/lg interest you, what you would like to try, and what you wouldn't like. 

 

Its might be difficult to explain it to your boyfriend. There are a lot of people who just aren't comfortable with a dd/lg relationship, and you can't force them to one. I think a lot of people had better luck by taking it easy and slowly introducing dd/lg aspects. oh! and try to avoid stuff like "I have this weird things I'm interested in..." and instead try and sound more confident about it. If you look around the forums I'm sure there are other stories from people trying to get their non-ddlg boyfriends involved, and those might help you. :3 Though I will warn you, it doesn't always go over well, but I hope it works out so you can be happy. <3

 

Oh! and welcome to the forums! ^w^ 

ohhh okie thank youu <3 I''m happy for the help ^.^

[Hurndauke]

Well, welcome! The key to telling him in my opinion is confidence.

[Guest ASerpent]

I'm in the same situation right now. The only difference is, that it is my husband and not my boyfriend. I thought about writing him a mail, but I haven't done that yet. At the moment I just try to push things into the 'right' direction by calling him Daddy etc. I just try to be myself right now and take things slow. I will see how far I get with that, but I think taking things slowly is probably better than hurry somebody into something. Maybe that would be a way for you? If you want to, you can PN me and we can keep talking.