Moving On

[KittenLove0018]

I had a Daddy I had been with for a long time. I found my now boyfriend. My daddy and I broke up. I miss having a daddy and I'm having a hard time being happy in my current relationship. I miss having a Daddy and he's not making the cut. He makes fun of me when I try to be a little with him and it hurts. Sex is painful and not fun. I'm trying to fix things with my boyfriend. I feel like nothing I do is good enough. I don't want to leave but at the same time I don't want a D/s relationship with him. And that makes me unhappy. Edited January 28, 2017 by KittenLove0018

[hisangel]

If your current boyfriend is making fun of you and you aren't happy then I think you know what needs to happen. You don't need someone in your life that can't accept you for you even if they don't agree or aren't into the same things you are.

[daddies_velvet_kitty]

You may not what to hear this but moving on and leaving seems to be the best choice you have. Anyone who makes fun of you or doesn't listen to your wants and needs is someone who does not deserve to be in your life. Your boyfriend may be a nice person but ultimately he's not making you happy. You are not selfish for wanting a daddy in your life, you have the right to want what you want. Maybe you need to take time and think for yourself what you want and what you want to become. Focusing on yourself and being single can put you in the right headspace to be ready for another ddlg relationship. All in all, its your choice but kink or vanilla anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable is a waste of your time. Hope this helped

[Frog]

I don't want to sound like a cruel person, but why exactly are you with this guy? He makes fun of you when you act little and he hurts you psychologically. Then the sex is painful and he hurts you physically. You feel like nothing is good enough and you're hurting emotionally. I'm not saying all this to be mean. If you really read what you said, I think hisangel is correct. There's a good part of you that is sending you red flags telling you to cut and run.

 

Regardless of anyone's stance on DDlg, we all deserve to be someone's #1. You're putting yourself much lower than that in this guy's life. There may be no such thing as a perfect relationship, since there will always be at least thing about your partner that bugs you at least some of the time. And again, I'm not being mean. This guy isn't a daddy, he isn't a boyfriend, and it doesn't sound to me like you should even have him as a friend.

 

I honestly wish you well. 

[HeCallsMePrincess]

i have to agree with Frog. some things cannot be fixed. 

[DaddysMonkey]

* Slow claps for Frog *

 

Hello there ! 

 

I have to agree with Frog. This guy shouldn't even be someone you consider a friend ! Personally , I don't you should have people in your life who make fun of you and make you feel so down.. especially to the point where you feel nothing is good enough. 

 

From what you are saying , it sounds like you are implying he is interested in D/s but not in Dd/lg. I would STILL not be around this guy , regardless of that. 

 

You make it very clear you are unhappy , and that you do not want to be in a D/s relationship. You also say that you don't want to leave him. The timeline of how you explained things it sounds like you got this new boyfriend before breaking up with your Daddy. Maybe you need to take some time alone , and not be with this guy or any Daddy and think about what you truly want and what you expect about of a partner/Daddy/boyfriend. Taking this time alone would hopefully give you a new perceptive on your happiness and what you would like to have in a relationship.

 

Hope this helps.