Being A Lonely Middle....

[RavishMeRosie]

I was curious if any else finds it extremely difficult to have a daddy who excepts you for being a middle vs a little. While binkies, onesies, and diapers can be cute and fun they just don't interest me. I've been trying to find a daddy who treats me like his little girl and not his baby, have any other middles have a hard time with this?

[Moose512]

Can I chime in as a daddy?  I have met several middles, and I think I tend to like that range better than the little range.  I don't really have an attraction to diapers and onesies and such.  I like someone who can be somewhat independent, but still needs a daddy to guide them and comfort them.

[Guest Kittehmuffin]

I'm definitely a middle too. I'm just very open and honest about it and there are some lovely Daddies out there who are attracted to middles and some that are attracted to Littles and Middles. I hope you find someone you click with soon!

[Prince_Towelie]

I like middles.

[Ruetta]

hello :3 i'm Middle, and you shouldnt feel down about that >w< not all daddies are into diapey, binkie, and baby stuff.. there are many daddy that love middle little age! my daddy doesnt like diapey and paci, he prefers middle who just did stuff like coloring, middle age activity.. i pwomise you'll find one soon ^^ goodluck~

[Antoinette]

Hey! I'm a little here, I feel like even in our own community people get the wrong idea of how someone involved in DD/lg should act, what the should like and what the other person is interested in. There are all different kinds of daddies and littles/middles (so there's someone for everyone!)

 

I feel as though a lot of the people who think of littles instantly assume that is has to be a girl who loves binkies and diapers, being constantly cared for and whatnot and that's not the case. I identify as more of a little than anything else and while I do love binkies, stuffies, (not diapers) and being cared for I also have a strong sense of independence and I tend to enjoy more ''middle-like'' activity also. Being a little doesn't mean I rely on my daddy, it just means that while I'm in my little headspace it's helpful for me to be cared for. 

 

There's someone out there for everyone, some people prefer littles and some prefer middles; you just need to keep on looking and stay open (:

[Guest Appacheian]

My little is a middle too there are more than you think! And that suits our dynamic its all that matters. Don't pigeon hole yourself into a set of parameters that aren't you. Babygirl, little girl, middle.. or anything else. There are no hard and fast rules.

[Guest princedoober]

I tend to prefer middles -- because that's what I'm used to. My first experiences were with seniors in HS who were stressed out about becoming adults and wanted to reclaim their "middle" status. They weren't interested at all in "little". They just wanted to have a smart, helpful, but dominant, dad who could help them with their real life problems in addition to enjoying "taboo" sexual relations with their daddy.

 

I still keep in touch with some of them as they go through college. It's been very fulfilling.

[Frog]

I'm not into diapers, and in many ways I'm more into middles and middle brats. I figure whatever you feel you are, find someone who likes that.