Not doing something cause of daddy?

[Harley_Quinn]

Let me explain a little better.

 

My little age range is 2-6. And I've thought about wearing pull ups. Not diapers but pull ups so daddy wouldn't have to worry about changing me.

 

Well anyway we lightly discussed the diaper thing after we found out a close friend of mine is a ABDL (adult baby diaper lover) and daddy said he's glad I don't like diapers and I told him how I've thought about it and I wouldn't like diapers but I would like to wear pull ups. And he told me no

 

So basically I'm not doing it just because daddy wouldn't want me to. Is this normal? Do any other littles have an issue like this?

[JoseTankian]

I think it's not normal.

 

You must talk about the rules, about what do you like and what not.

 

But If I wasnt a diaper lover and my little yes, I let her wear diapers, it's obvius, it's her hapiness.

 

Why I must limit one person? If you wear diaper or pull ups it's nothing wrong.

 

Daddy put rules, but that doesn't mean that Daddy have the true absolute about all the things on the world.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

if it's something you really want, do it without him. you're an adult and it is YOUR life and ultimately your decision how you choose to live it. that being said, dont expect him to take part if it's something he doesnt want to do. 

[daddies_velvet_kitty]

Honestly I would discuss this one on one with him as an adult instead of as a sub. I would explain to him why you like the idea of pull ups, and let him explain why he doesn't like it. For me personally, I started wearing pull ups a few months ago but only in little space sometimes. I don't wear them all the time, but I find them very comforting to wear when I'm on period especially. Also some littles use pull ups for their intended purpose, but for me I just like the way they feel and am not interested in going to the bathroom in them. Maybe your daddy doesn't like one aspect of them, so talking it out might help to reach a common ground. Maybe you two can compromise and only wear them either in little space, or going to bed etc. Or you may not even like them at all, or maybe he might loosen up after you give them a try. I would definitely try talking about it again so you both can understand each others feelings. And ultimately if you both still feel divided on the issue, wear them when you are alone or something. I hope this helped a little and hope that you both can be on the same page soon

[Guest TwinklingSpace]

I agree with daddies_velvet_kitty.

 

I think you need to have a conversation with him on equal ground and discuss the topic openly and honestly.

 

There's a reason why he doesn't like the idea of diapers or pull ups. Is it because that's just too much for him (too much of a reality of a child), is it because he doesn't want to hear the crinkle, he doesn't want to touch you with a diaper on, or is it because he doesn't want to/want to feel like he has to change you.

 

And then explain to him in words that he can understand why you want to. And by that I mean, speak his lingo.

 

I have this issue with my father all the time; we don't speak the same English. A word might mean one thing to me but something completely else to him. So when I speak with him I have to change my speech style to fit his. Which can be frustrating for me but it makes it easier for both of us.

 

The reason why I suggest this is because if/when you have this conversation. If you use words/speech that you use when you're a little or a sub it might come off as you being whinny or bratty or manipulative or whatever. Because if you use those words/speech it might flip his mindset and then you might have the same conversation you had last time instead of a new one.

 

You need to talk about this with him if it's really that important to you. Either come to a positive conclusion (you wearing the pull ups) or a compromise you both feel comfortable with (not going to the restroom in them, not wearing them when he's around, etc) or if you feel like you have to wear them and he won't agree, let him know you're still going to do it. Don't just go behind his back and try to hide it. Let him know and maybe that will open the conversation up again.

 

Good luck sweets!

[arineunha]

I think it depends, if you like diapers then you should be able to wear it. But I think peeing or doing your business inside and making him change it, is not fair-so it should have a say in it. I think overall you need to find something you like and he's okay with doing

Edited January 26, 2017 by arineunha

[Harley_Quinn]

Thank you all for the advice, I think his main problem is the going potty in my pants sorta thing. I think it would be gross (despite that I would more likely use a toilet than my pants) in his opinion

[Baby Neko]

If you talk to him and he is insistent that he doesn't like them maybe you could ask if you could try wearing them when he's not around, like daddies_velvet_kitty said. There's nothing wrong with exploring some things solo if your partner isn't into it. 

 

Bottom line is, the only reason a little should let their daddy control  their behaviour is because they like being controlled and following rules and orders. If you feel held back by him saying no then I would just wear them anyway by myself.

[Harley_Quinn]

Update: daddy says I can wear pull ups because that's what I want as long as I don't use the potty in them! I just wanted to let everyone know. Thank you for all the advice! It helped alot