Rules for daddy? well kind of...

[Lil_pinkprincess]

[BabyKittenPaws]

I colored pictures for my daddy of things I like that he does and things I dont like 

[daddies_velvet_kitty]

Ultimately ddlg is relationship between two people so if your daddy is doing something you feel uncomfortable with or giving him ideas on things you like, you should absolutely tell him without feeling like your impeding on your little side. Giving suggestions to your daddy is important, as open communication is always important, I don't think you need to give him rules per say about these suggestions as they can come about at any time. Communicating your needs should happen on a day to day basis as so should your daddy. Rules can help provide the power exchange between the caregiver and little, although there are some couples who don't use rules at all. What I'm basically trying to say is, I don't think you should outline these suggestions as rules but instead keep healthy communication going and bring these up when they come about. Sometimes when my daddy does something I like I give him a sticker and stick it to his shirt or pants he laughs about it. I hope this helped

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

I've tried to talk to Mister Master about setting up rules for me. He didn't quiet get what I meant or what I was asking for. It's a conversation I'm going to try having again when we move. However we do have some "rules" I've came up with and some "rules" we share. More of good manners and behavior, I guess. It's kinda cute and fun more than actual rules.

 

Our Shared "Rules"

 

1. Always say I love you. When one says I love you always say I love you in return, no matter how upset one might be at the other.
2. Always say GoodNights. No matter if we're upset with each other or how tired we may be. Complete with Goodnight kisses.
3. Always try to be nice and respectful with words and aware when in a sour or grummpypuss mood, especially if not upset with each other
4. When fighting or upset, put in effort to be claim and respectfully talk it out whatever is bothering us

I mean, they aren't really rules, more like common scents for people in relationship and we where being cute and having fun while talking about them. But they still make good Rules for Caregivers and Littles alike.