My boyfriend doesn't want to be my daddy

[LilyAnna]

I really thought he was ok with it, he acted like it for a couple of months and now he says he says it's too intense for him. Maybe I didn't explain what I wanted good enough...I just want him to be my daddy. What do I do? How do I better explain this lifestyle? Help;-;

[arineunha]

you cant force him to be your daddy. you would have to find someone willign to be a daddy, or you have to date him but keep your little lifestyle to yourself.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

he either is or isnt. you cant make someone be a Daddy Dom or Little or anything. you can try it and discover it is in fact who you are, but you cant force it. 

[TeddybearCandyfloss]

Unfortunately, if he's decided it's not for him you can't force it. If you truly believe he didn't understand what you meant when you asked him to be your daddy you should have a conversation with him about ddlg even if he later plans not to adopt it.

[sighing]

You can either break up to find a Daddy or stay if you can deal with a non-ddlg relationship. You can't force him to live a lifestyle that he's not compatible with.

[moodylittlecloud]

Can relate

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

If it's too intense, tame it down a little.

Once he's comfortable with babysteps, you can add other stuff in.

^.^ Don't let it get you too down.

 

The way I approached it with my Daddy/husband was to not even mention ddlg and just let things naturally play out.

But it's possible I'm just lucky and don't know it.

 

Good luck <3 Hope it pans out well

[Kitten Master]

Thats sad, well i got in to this lifestyle by accident I have been in Kittenplay but then got involved with girl who was little and could say i was first like ummm what??

But after while it started to be my lifestyle too. We managed to combine both and that was just heavenly

[Lil_pinkprincess]