Humiliation punishments

[Prettypumpkinprincess]

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I don't have any examples, just a word of caution. Ease into it slowly like all things BDSM related. We tried some mild humiliation a few weeks ago during a play session. I truthfully hadn't done anything wrong but we pretended as though I did and used humiliation as a "punishment". At the end... I ended up in tears and discovered this was a limit for me. It caused some pretty intense emotions I wasn't expecting. I'm normally one who needs minimal aftercare but the results of that one session caused me to need aftercare immediately after and for a couple days following randomly.

 

Of course, your experience maybe entirely different than mine and you may enjoy it very much. Just want to make sure you monitor your emotions.

[Prettypumpkinprincess]

Okay thankyou, usually when we try something new we go slow anyways but if anything is ever too much he always stops and cuddles me and says sorry (even though he doesn't need to)

[Guest ♥ Lee ♥]

humiliation sounds a lot worse than it is. It could just be posting a status on the forum saying I did something bad and this is my punishment or posting a specific picture on tumblr. Not something so completely horrible. But something slightly embarrassing.

[b u n n y]

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Edited December 3, 2020 by baby baphomet

[daddies_velvet_kitty]

Honestly what might be humiliating to someone else might not be humiliating to you. I think you should bring this up to your partner first and set some boundaries just to be safe. Before incorporating something new it's always best to check with your partner to see their feelings on it and see if adding this would be good for the both of you. Some of these examples may or may not work but that doesn't mean humiliation is not for you. It's all about how you and your partner feel in the scene. And if it doesn't work out for you both that doesn't mean your a bad sub or he's a bad dom. I would just have some caution when adding humiliation without having a in depth conversation about what you both or wanting. Since bdsm is different for everyone you can always make anything your own to fit you and your partners needs. I hope this helped