Caregivers rewards

[Alr]

Just wanting to know if there is anything the caregiver will get out of a ddlg relationship apart from the opportunity to take care of his little. Will his little not need to worry at all aboutbhow she makes her daddy feel?

[Guest Kittehmuffin]

I can only speak for the relationships I have had and there has definitely been a sharing of giving and receiving. The way I operate though is that ddlg is part of a relationship - it's not the full relationship, so I don't know if others have different dynamics. There's care and love and that comes through in the ddlg relationship too...whether it's checking in to see how he is, talking things over with him if he needs or wants to, giving him little surprises. To me it's important to make anyone you're in a relationship with feel loved and cherished....that should also apply in ddlg relationships.

[Guest Cookiepie]

I definitely agree with Kittehmuffin! 

 

You might be in a dynamic where your caregiver is ultimately the "care-er" but this person is still your other half and all those big and small loving gestures still apply in the ddlg dynamic. 

You need to care for your caregiver just as much as he/she cares for you, just not necessarily in the same way. Don't try to boss them around- as that could get you in trouble!!! But doing little things for them and being aware of "dom-drops" is very important. 

Also, your caregiver gets your trust ultimately.

 

 Will his little not need to worry at all aboutbhow she makes her daddy feel?

 

 

And in regard to that, every little should want to make sure her daddy feels loved, appreciated and respected. Again, this person is important to you, make them feel important. 

 

Hope that helps.  

[Alr]

Thanks guys for the advice we have been talking since then and Ive told her my feelings and she seems to understand we are really going to try and make this work

[Guest Kittehmuffin]

I'm glad to hear! Wishing you both the best of luck!

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

you said you've resolved this and i'm glad you have, with a question like this might

i suggest reading more about a cg/l relationship? if a girlfriend/wife has to worry

about how she makes her boyfriend/husband feel - the same applies with a little and

a daddy. that bit was more relationship than it was ddlg.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

DDlg relationships are just that.... relationships. The needs and feelings of both parties should always be considered. My Daddy gets my total submission in our relationship. He has my trust and loyalty. He also gets gifts periodically, cute messages, cuddles, tasks I do just for him... his feelings are of utmost importance to me.

[Guest Kali]

I agree with Daddy's Babygirl above. The reward is the love, obedience (most of the time - you know who I'm referring to, princess!) and submission of your Little Girl. Seeing your princess play, to see her happy, and, if your relationship is such, for her to submit her body to Daddy's whim, is reward enough. But it is all about balance. If you feel that you are continually giving and that you are being used in the way, for example, a professional carer might be, then you need to talk this out with your Little's big counterpart. It will only lead to growing resentment and disillusionment if you don't. Good luck!