First Serious BF but I Don't Know if He's into DD/LG?

[starbinch]

So I'm in a relationship with the most loving, sweet man I've ever met in my life. We both love each other very much. Well, He recently found my Tumblr and saw all my DD/LG posts, and brought it up over lunch. I was embarrassed of course, but it also made me wonder if he would be into the dynamic? He cares for me very much and always feel safe around him, So I often go into little space around him. He thinks I'm just hyper but really I'm a little. I know deep down that he's be a great caregiver, but I just don't know if he's into it. I feel kind of sad about it, because I want him to be my Daddy. What do I do??

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Ask him if he's into it.

Tell him you want him to be your Caregiver. 

Tell him you're a little. 

 

Really, it's that simple. 

 

It may be scary, but that's honestly the best and really only solution to this dilemma. He might say no. He might not be interested. But not telling him isn't just denying a part of yourself, it's challenging the honesty of your dynamic. You sound like you have a great relationship. Share this part of yourself with him, and see what happens. Just be prepared for the possibility he might not be interested, because that's his choice. But he's already seen the posts. There's your bridge. 

 

Good luck!

[starbinch]

Thank you very much. IT is scary, but I'll do that.