Always sad after Daddy and i have a good day together

[Snugglebum Princess]

Hey everyone, just wondering if any of you experience this too. Daddy and I are LDR and I always get so blue after we have had a nice day together. Could this be a form of subdrop? Any suggestions on how you handle these feelings in your experiences?

Any advice would be much appreciated.

Thanks

Snugglebum

[Indi Baby]

It probably is you just missing that joy once its gone! It's nothing bad, I get the same way sometimes. All you really gotta do is get yourself into the mindset of appreciating and reminiscing what you two just did instead of missing it and feeling miserable because its temporarily gone

[Guest Kittehmuffin]

I handle mine by reminding myself the feeling will pass and there will be more good days. I let myself feel sad, but I also let myself feel the love between us too.

[pengudaddy]

It probably is you just missing that joy once its gone! It's nothing bad, I get the same way sometimes. All you really gotta do is get yourself into the mindset of appreciating and reminiscing what you two just did instead of missing it and feeling miserable because its temporarily gone

 

I handle mine by reminding myself the feeling will pass and there will be more good days. I let myself feel sad, but I also let myself feel the love between us too.

 

Great advice. It is better to make the situation a positive afterglow rather than a dismal absence of what you had!

[fluffiepinkiecutie]

hi!

I'm not a little in a LDR but I have a very very good friend who is 400 kms away from me and we always have long phone calls and everytime we hang up i feel like all the fulfilling emotions i was having are thrown away from my chest, like everything we did didn't mean nothing, like it was just an illusion.

for me, there aren't really valid solutions, but i think you two can work this out. me and my friend, for example, do not hang up while we're sending kisses to each other (we used to, but it made it really worse for me). it makes it less traumatic. 

maybe, next time you two meet, you can call each other for something like ten minutes after you come back home. 

yes, it's not the same thing of having each other near you, but at least you can still hear his voice, and then you let it go that too. step by step.

hope what works for us could work for you two as well   

[Guest BabyGirl_Liya]

I think you should try taking pictures of making videos with him to remind you of him when you feel down.

I did that when I had a daddy and it helps because I spent more day being happy then feeling blue.

Also, a special friend of mine told me that when your feeling down you should have a safe word so your daddy knows how you are feeling.

[Guest BabyGirl_Liya]

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[mylittlesidewearsblack]

i am not ldr but my sister is, and she suffers the same feelings. it's just so hard to deal with being far away from the person/people that you love. the best idea is to just keep reminding yourself that the distance may not last forever, and that hopefully things will come around for you. long distance really isn't any fun, but it is sometimes the only choice. just hold on to the happy memories as best as you can. always say goodnight and good morning. always skype or text when you feel lonely, and don't just hide yourself away. good luck!

[Snugglebum Princess]

Thank you everyone for your helpful advice. I guess there are no ways of really avoiding the feeling altogether but I have a better idea of how to get a hold on it. 

[BigCityLittleGirl]

Same here. We hang every weekend but I still get sad. I try to occupy myself with other things so I don't focus on loneliness. Having him give you a project or task to complete for the next time you guys hang is also great. My daddy will ask me to draw him something and I am so excited to go home and do that for him.