What do your Daddys do?

[Guest ASerpent]

Hi,

 

as I already told you I'm new in here. That's why I have to ask you again for advice. I hope that's OK

 

What do your Daddys actually do to comfort you / to care for you? Do you have some examples?

 

Thank you

Edited January 17, 2017 by ASerpent

[PinkiePie84]

he surprises me with little trinkets and toys after he gets home. He will pick up fast food sometimes if I'm too tired to cook and gets me a kids meal toy, every night I go to sleep with my head in his lap and he gives me pets or head scratches and sometimes he plays videos for me to listen to while I fall asleep, when I wake up I see hes moved all the things from around me that I always forget are in bed when I fall sleep lol, and plugs in my phone for me which I also forget to do.

I'm really emotional so probably the most caring thing for me is that he is so good at handling my blow ups. I get really sad and down and dramatic sometimes and last night was a good example. He didn't tke any of it personally, knowing I was not in my right head space and this morning everything is OK and he took care of me all night. I even made myself throw up from getting upset and he held my hair and got me all the things I wanted and talked to me about my little ponies while I recovered . He's the sweetest.

[Guest banana]

Hi  

 

I'm in a LDR with the best daddy ever so I might not have his kisses and hugs but when I'm sad daddy sends me lots of cute messages to tell me that he loves me and how amazing he thinks I am, he also sends me voicemails to comfort me. But most importantly he gives me all his attention and listens to me and make sure that I feel loved and that I trust him enough to tell him everything ^^ 

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Hi there :3

My Daddy is absolutely amazing. We have a different dynamic than some here in that we are D/s first. We are also married :3

I suffer from anxiety and migraines. When my migraines kick in Daddy will turn lights down and keep the kiddos quiet so I can rest. My anxiety is largely social related so he handles most social situations. It literally makes me physically sick to order my own food at a resteraunt so Daddy does it for me most of the time. He also listens when I have panic attacks about silly stuff.

 

Most of the time Daddy cooks dinner as we both work full time but he gets home earlier. He also colors with me which I know he doesn't really enjoy but says he enjoys anything that's spending time with me. He's really an amazing Daddy.

[lilsnoopy]

My daddy has been the most understanding person I've met. He saved me from the guy I was 'dating' (who treated me terribly)...He was a protector from the start. He keeps me safe. He always reminds me to be careful and makes rules to keep me as safe as possible. Every night he asks me what I ate that day to make sure I'm eating enough. Also on our nightly conversations, he talks or reads to me to get me to sleep then usually stays up a while making sure I won't wake up. He also provides for me so he likes buying me gifts or things I need. Daddy is also super supportive. I have plans to open an etsy shop for my collars and stuff now that i've been practicing/designing several months and he is confident about it/me even when I am not (he's actually paying for just about all of it because he believes in me that much). Just in general, he is the only person I have who is ALWAYS in my corner. I can never tell him how much that means to me.

 

In person daddy always gives me options to pick shows from so I have a say but am not overwhelmed. He cooks for me and makes chocolate milk. Every time after we ugh.. you know... he cleans me up and kisses my forehead and he likes dressing me. He is currently learning how to braid my hair into pigtails ^.^. He also feeds me in a kitty/puppy bowl when I want or plays fetch with me. Sometimes It is nice just sitting in his lap relaxing. To be blunt: I'm a brat. Like a hardcore- will throw a fit sometimes over nothing- brat. Daddy has mastered (*nudge nudge* get it??) being a brat tamer. He is also the best dom (sexually or otherwise) I ever could have asked for. 

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

My Daddy and I are married and have been together for about 4-5yrs, and are best friends. So we know each other very well.

 

I have severe anxiety, so he goes everywhere with me and makes sure I hold his hand.

When I'm unwell or sore, he helps undress and dress me. 

Sometimes he cooks dinner. 

He's painted my nails before and would probably do it again.

Brushes my hair.

Prepares hot water bottles when I've got nono pains.

Gives timeouts accordingly. (But I'm a good girl 98% of the time)

If I accidentally spill drink (I'm clumsy without a straw or bottle) he'll help clean me up and get me clean clothes.

He refills my juice bottle, often without me even needing to ask for it. 

He stops what he's doing to pay attention to me (although I also wait until he doesn't seem too busy before I ask questions or talk). 

And sometimes he cuts my food up into little pieces, which I think is cute. ^^

Sometimes he feeds me my food like a babby.

He offers to bring me one of my plushies if I'm upset.

He gives me back scratchies.

If I accidentally fall asleep watching something in bed, he'll turn the light out and make sure I'm tucked in. 

If I can't reach something, he'll get it. If I can't lift something, he'll lift it. 

And just loves and cares for me overall.   I'm berry lucky.

[Antoinette]

Whenever I'm upset my daddy talks to me, extensively and thoroughly. He's always been good at that, even when we weren't dating and we were friends he'd always be the type of guy you could rant to and they'd just comfort you, give you advice... Guide you. A natural caregiver. Him and I are long distance so there's not a lot he can physically do but visual and audio aid help me SO much, hearing his voice comforts me to no end and seeing his face is just... It makes me feel safe. A few of the things he'll usually say are:

 

''It's okay babygirl,'' (short, sweet, effective) 

''Where's your stuffy? Which one are you gonna cuddle? (insert name) doesn't like it when you're sad princess,'' 

''Come here, daddy will take care of you.''

''There's nothing to worry about princess, daddy is here.''

 

And things along those lines. 

[TheRatQueen]

If something is wrong he talks me through it and then when I can respond we have a conversation about whatever is the matter. If I haven't fully come around by that point he tells jokes and blows raspberries on my face and in my hair to make me laugh.

 

When I'm falling asleep or when I get anxious he puts his hand center on my chest because the pressure is really, really soothing.

 

I stop brushing my hair when I'm over-stressed or having a depressive episode, so he'll sit me down and brush it for me.

[LezBabykins]

Hi,

 

as I already told you I'm new in here. That's why I have to ask you again for advice. I hope that's OK

 

What do your Daddys actually do to comfort you / to care for you? Do you have some examples?

 

Thank you

 My Daddikins does lots of things for me: 

Opens my soda's 

opens my doors

helps me with my socks and shoes

when I am anxious or upset Daddi will cuddle me or rub my back and stroke my hair

Daddi makes my rules and routines

[Harley_Quinn]

Before I was pregnant:

Daddy would make me food all the time, and do the chores (because he stayed at home while I worked) and he helped me get dressed

 

Now:

Daddy still makes me dinner and breakfast when I don't have work cause I work till he goes into work

He helps me get dressed still. Especially with tights,sockies and shoes. He also pics out my outfits.

He also deals with me being sick more often and goes and buys me giant water bottles, ginger ale, makes me ice packs and heating pads.

 

He's gonna be double daddying but he's doing great :3

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

My Daddy is the bestest EVER!!!!!

 

He makes me happy when I'm sad

He calms me down when I'm over excited

He reads me stories at bedtime and stays on Skype until I'm asleep

He knows how to calm me when I'm crying hysterically (usually over nothing, he shushes and soothes me)

He colours with me

He plays games with me

He cares for me, physically, mentally and emotionally

He picks out my clothes

He makes sure I'm taking care of myself

He tells me to get my paci and stuffies to get into little space

 

He loves me endlessly

Edited January 20, 2017 by Dumbledork'sPrincess