Feeling quite Sad

[Tiger_Corn]

Ill start by saying Sir. And I have been together for roughly 3 years. We enjoy each other's company doesn't matter what we do,

 

but lately when it comes to coloring,or games, reading books out loud, movies that I would enjoy he walks away or pays for one of my friends to go with me. When he does participate he acts like they're chores. And says there boring.

 

These are things we've done since day one. My "little side" is not a SIDE it doesnt just turn off and on it's just who I am. Doesn't matter if I'm at work or at school or around my family and friends.

 

The first time we spent the night together we watched disney movies and eat crystal suger Covered popcorn!

 

I don't understand the change and because I'm not doing them alone I feel like I can't really complain.

 

I wish I could spank him sometimes.. j/k about the Spanking but he does need a time out to think about what exactly it is he's doing

[Child Of Light]

It's Okay for people to change or interests to ver away from what they once where. Everyone has the right to change their fetishes. It might not be something that is appealing to him anymore.Talk to him. A lot of times it's communication breakdown or a need to compermise. For example -- maybe, you need to find something he is interested in and Innertwine them. One of my compermises are -- we only watch Disney movies if I earn enough stars for the month and than I can pick 1 movie. Game nights are reward nights as well (unless it's a game he also likes) -- same with movies. This helps my S/o and I keep things tolerable. Edited January 17, 2017 by Child Of Light

[BUJI]

i feel sad like this too   my big daddy decided he was bored with me too.  he wanted a more sexy fetishy baby who only talks to him on kik and come to visit him once in a while.  he is my husband and my friend too, but what can i do now that he became bored and chasing after new people and their fancy ways

 

it hurt alot to get discarded  im a person not a fetish to just change, 

its hard to compromise when someone decides one sidedly to make the relationship into poly amory and when i cant handle it due to traumas and dissociation i end up just too overloaded with difficult and bad feelings.

[Tiger_Corn]

It's Okay for people to change or interests to ver away from what they once where. Everyone has the right to change their fetishes. It might not be something that is appealing to him anymore.Talk to him. A lot of times it's communication breakdown or a need to compermise. For example -- maybe, you need to find something he is interested in and Innertwine them. One of my compermises are -- we only watch Disney movies if I earn enough stars for the month and than I can pick 1 movie. Game nights are reward nights as well (unless it's a game he also likes) -- same with movies. This helps my S/o and I keep things tolerable.

 

I will think over this..I understand compromise if we didn't we wouldn't have have this far. I am in not way interested in being "tolerable". I want to enjoy the things that relax me with the man i enjoy most.

[Guest Isabelle]

Perhaps he needs a break, sometimes daddy's can burn out, it's a demanding role.

[Tiger_Corn]

i feel sad like this too   my big daddy decided he was bored with me too.  he wanted a more sexy fetishy baby who only talks to him on kik and come to visit him once in a while.  he is my husband and my friend too, but what can i do now that he became bored and chasing after new people and their fancy ways

 

it hurt alot to get discarded  im a person not a fetish to just change, 

its hard to compromise when someone decides one sidedly to make the relationship into poly amory and when i cant handle it due to traumas and dissociation i end up just too overloaded with difficult and bad feelings.

I am sorry you are going through that with you husband that's unpleasant. You deserve love

[Tiger_Corn]

Perhaps he needs a break, sometimes daddy's can burn out, it's a demanding role.

 

I wonder how long?

[Guest Isabelle]

I think that's best asking him. Ask him in a caring way if he needs a break from your little time together for a while, littles are like children, even though we are adults, and every parent needs a break once in a while. He might need a week or so of pampering and for you to listen to his stress as adults, nurture the deeper bond that fuels the dd/lg one. Maybe he wants a month break, I don't know, but talking to him in safe space and offering to keep your little side occupied with your little friends or little alone time for a while might be what he needs. Daddys can be very afraid to hurt their little, he might not ask for time and be subtly pushing you to other littles to try and not hurt your feelings. Just be sure he feels safe telling you what he needs, and be sure you do not get angry or upset. Think about your needs and how much of a break would be too long for you, and discuss it together.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

As both a little and an actual parent, I agree a break might be in order. Littles are demanding, require attention and care. It can be hard on our Cgs. You've made it 3yrs, I can't imagine he's done with you as a person. He may need a break, it may be a day, a week, a month. The only person who can tell you is him.

 

I understand you say that your little side is part of who you are. I completely understand as I am much the same way. I was little before I knew what little was. I unlike many don't feel I age regress, but I'm still little 24/7. However, sometimes you just have to have an adult conversation and bottle the little up. I feel this is one of those times.

[MisterMomo]

I get you about the fact that you want to share this with the man you love... and not "be tolerable". I tjink the same with mommy and get annoyed we she seems to be exhausted by me (I can be heheh)

 

Talking with him can help you know things he would like to do or activities he would also like. Sometime it is a little sparks that can help havin energy for many days.

 

I kind of like the part where he pays for a friend to be with you... I understand you want him to be there, but still fun to share that time with someone else.

 

Hope it gets better ..

[Child Of Light]

I will think over this..I understand compromise if we didn't we wouldn't have have this far. I am in not way interested in being "tolerable". I want to enjoy the things that relax me with the man i enjoy most.

 

The Dom role can be very tiring. It helps break up the role a bit. I still get my couple of movies in, my games-- but I also earn those.