Recently Came Out to my Husband

[Sparklefrosting]

I had read on here about a few littles coming out via email and thought I would give it a try since I struggle to get my point across in person when I'm nervous. 

I told my hubby that I had stumbled upon a community 6 months ago and about a few interests that littles had and that I shared those interests and wanted to explore that part of myself. Mostly, I implied that I would do it on my own but hoped he would be understanding and accepting of me. 

He wrote back saying he fully supported me and already knew I had a childish side and loved it as much as the rest of me. 

Lately he's been acting a little differently; asking to play games with me or interacting with me when I'm playing with toys. I don't mind that he does these things I'm just worried it will bring out my little side more and I'll scare him off or if I talk to him about it he'll feel pressured. What do you guys think? 

 

[PrincessClara]

i think if he's asking to play games and things he is subtly trying to encourage your little side. I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. If you need to do it in an email again then do so. Communication is always key though! 

[Sparklefrosting]

i think if he's asking to play games and things he is subtly trying to encourage your little side. I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. If you need to do it in an email again then do so. Communication is always key though! 

I think you're right. Maybe I should email him about what a caregiver is/does and ask him about it later in person. I think worst case scenario is he would just want to keep things as they are which would be fine with me. 

[Guest PattyCake]

Definitely sounds like he is trying to encourage your little side.  Enjoy it!

[Tiger_Corn]

Omg he is soon seweet.. my heart can't take it.

[auban]

I had read on here about a few littles coming out via email and thought I would give it a try since I struggle to get my point across in person when I'm nervous. 

I told my hubby that I had stumbled upon a community 6 months ago and about a few interests that littles had and that I shared those interests and wanted to explore that part of myself. Mostly, I implied that I would do it on my own but hoped he would be understanding and accepting of me. 

He wrote back saying he fully supported me and already knew I had a childish side and loved it as much as the rest of me. 

Lately he's been acting a little differently; asking to play games with me or interacting with me when I'm playing with toys. I don't mind that he does these things I'm just worried it will bring out my little side more and I'll scare him off or if I talk to him about it he'll feel pressured. What do you guys think? 

 

 

when my wife came out to me, i cant explain to you how happy it made me feel.  i LOVED that little side of her, especially when she was happily playing, coloring, or just wanted cuddles or something.  

 

my wife also worried about scaring me off because of the whole taboo thing.  she thought i would think she was messed up or gross somehow.  truth be told, i absolutely loved every bit of it.  it made her feel safe, safe enough to open up to me. 

 

i can tell you this...  we will NEVER go back.  she will always be my little girl. i will always love her.

[ChiiDoll]

Enjoy him and enjoy your time together. If you are getting uncomfortable talk to him as an adult and ask what you need to and so on. My husband is my Daddy, he wasn't a Daddy before me and is exploring it because of his love for me. Your husband sounds the same. It seems like he is enjoying it.  *hugs* It is scary to get what you want, but take a few deep breaths and go with it!