Comfort Daddy

[Guest ASerpent]

What do you do to comfort your Daddy?

[Guest]

Lol I thought it said confront at first derp

 

Hmm I normally tell him how wonderful and amazing he is. How much he means to me. If he is having worries then we try and talk out why he is worried.

Edited January 14, 2017 by Arya

[Child Of Light]

I tell him how wonderful he is, and how amazing he is. Talk to him. Is he upset about something? Overleemed, stressed, scared etc. I can typically tell, and we talk it out.

 

I Rub the back of his neck, massage for a bit and give him back if the head kisses. Sometimes, I pull him close and make him be the little spoon. Sometimes I make him tea, or leave him little presents to show I'm thinking about him.

[cuppycakes]

My daddy sometimes needs constant reassurance that he's a good person, or that I love him. When I comfort him, I tell him over and over what I want him to hear, and if he says the word "but" I will tell him again. And again. And again. I make sure he knows I really mean what I'm telling him.

 

The other thing is skin to skin contact. That doesn't mean anything dirty. It means holding his hands, putting my hands on his bare back, touching my face to his, you name it. Anything to subtly show him I don't want anything between us. Human touch is EXTREMELY important. We recognize it as good, especially when it's in a safe space (or if that safe space is a person we trust).

 

This was a good question to ask it's good to remember daddies need comfort and care, too.

[MadameButterfly]

I love to give my daddy hugs and kisses and be there for him physically, as a shoulder to lean onto. I'm not very good with words so physical touch is how I communicate, so I try to just touch and hold him.

[DaddysMonkey]

Hello there !

 

I think it depends on what my Daddy needs comfort for. 

 

I usually know off the bat with simple things like him being physically tired. If he's had a rough day or week even , I will give him really long back rubs. We have thing thingy that plugs into the wall.. it's this heated back massage thing and it vibrates with two knobby things on it. (Forgive my terrible description >-<)  I will rub his shoulders too , and do all of this every night if he needs it. 

 

If he is mentally tired from his day at work , I will tell him how much I appreciate him and all of the hard work he does to provide a nice life for the kitties and I. I tell him how much the kitties and I love him and care about him. 

 

If something is bothering him , I don't try to intrude too much. He's an introvert like me and he likes to think about how he is going to react to something that is bothering him before speaking. When this kind of thing happens I give him space until he is ready to talk about whatever is bugging , whether it's work , family , between us ect. After we talk , I tell him I love him and glad he trusts me to talk to , and try to give the best advice I can or try to come up with a solution to his issue if he has not already.

 

Other than anything specific , I like to also do these things for him (Even though I do some of them anyway everyday , like cooking) :

 

-Run him a bath with lavender Epsom salts or bubbles

-Make sure all of the chores are done so he can relax

-Give him space and time to play video games

-Cook him his favorite dish

-Bake him something nice to eat

-Give him back rubs

-Tell him jokes , or a story to make him laugh

-Sing silly songs to him (Or pretty songs)

 

Just a small list ^-^  I hope this helps ! 

[Guest ASerpent]

Thank for your answers. I do things like these too and I thinks he likes them.

[Lil_pinkprincess]

I massage and rub him, give him lots kisses and hugs, play with and brush his hair, give him my paci (which he declines with a playful no), I run him a bath or take a bath with him, and of course if he's sexually frustrated I offer him relief.

It just really depends on what he's needing at that moment.