New daddy

[Hornyknight2277]

Thank you all so much for your help! I have been talking to the wrong people... they told me that it's the daddy's job to demand and littles like dirty talk and stuff... I am still learning.... this will help me be better at being a daddy! I want to be a good daddy and only show love. And be there for my little girl. Thank you all. Edited January 14, 2017 by Hornyknight2277

[cuppycakes]

You should really go over these with your partner when you get one. For me, these rules are really harsh and I would need them changed. I don't think some random people on the internet can create an ideal rule list for someone who even you haven't met yet.

 

Side note: being a new daddy, you might be a little over-zealous. Start with a few rules and try to decide from there. A little needs a lot of love and care, too, and not all littles want rules like the ones you're describing.

 

It's okay to be excited and want a relationship, but I'd recommend holding off on the specifics until after you meet your little.

 

(one more thing: but don't quote me. It's usually littles and middles, not littles and "tweens". Calling someone a tween would make them sound like an actual child, and I know I personally wouldn't be comfortable with that label.)

[Johnny Hammersticks]

[Guest Isabelle]

I'm new to this myself, but I'd really be careful on the nude pictures and videos aspects you are asking for. There are a lot in this community who are shy or are nervous about that sort of thing, or have body image issues (all of those apply to me). There are also concerns about bad breakups and threats of leaking pictures and video to the internet, and some legal situations, so most people around here that I've seen are going to be very concerned with a demand for nudity. I don't think I'd personally ever be comfortable sharing nudes, as I want to become an author, and having something like that leaked for me in the professional world could be devastating for me. It also seems like a huge red flag you want your little to perform dirty for you so you can 'get off' with her, that's not the language of a loving and caring daddy. Sounds like you want more of a sexual ageplay rather than a little to care for. Littles need a lot of CARE above all else. Nurturing and cuddles. Sex can be important, but the love and care is the primary heart of this relationship.

 

That aside, most of the time rules are best made by the person that wants them, with some from the other that are agreed upon. Like myself, I'd like to make a rule I need to exercise 4 days a week for example, that can be a rule my daddy could give me. Some littles want more full control over everything, others want looser or more flexibility, it's generally not the best idea to make hard and fast rules and THEN look for a little, you want to come up with that together.

 

**I'd encourage you to join the chat room, and see littles and daddy's (who are not involved with one another) interacting together. It's a very nurturing role, and I love to be in the chat rooms before bed, I can get some little time and attention, and some caring, and it makes me feel good before going to sleep.

Edited January 14, 2017 by Isabelle

[Hornyknight2277]

Thank you all! I was talking to the wrong people!!! They told me I had to make all the rule and demand things! Thank you all for helping me!

[PinkiePie84]

To me it sounds like you're using the word Daddy as a tool to get nude pictures from girls online. What do you plan to provide for her?

[Hurndauke]

Seems so creepish to ask for those right away my dude, just my experience.

[LittleGirlEmilia]

To me it sounds like you're using the word Daddy as a tool to get nude pictures from girls online. What do you plan to provide for her?

 

These were my thoughts too lol! The dude has horny in his username lmfao.