Being A Little Without A Daddy Dom

[BubbleKitty]

Anyone else out there who is a little and doesn't have a Daddy Dom? How is it for you and how do you cope? What do you do? How do you have little time?

I fall under this category.

[Soulful]

When I didn't have a daddy/sir, I simply made time fo myself. Finding myself and doing the things I like to do. I got into school and I did hobbies to occupy my days. I will admit sometimes it's hard, but when you are learning about yourself and what you love and don't love, you will learn not to tolerate a lot of things from daddies or other people. It's worth the wait and it's worth the time. Sometimes it's fun to learn about the things you know you can deal with and the things you know you won't deal with. Patience is the key. Like I said things to do will take your mind off it. 

Edited January 12, 2017 by Soulful

[Guest]

Before I had a daddy, I would do the same things. Color, watch cartoons and so on. I gave myself a set of basic rules. (Brushing my teeth twice a day, a bed time when classes were going on, no sweets past this time and stuff like that). You don't need a daddy to be little and get into little space (for some that does make it easier though).

 

I enjoyed my time as a single little , but I am happy I found my daddy now.

[BubbleKitty]

When I didn't have a daddy/sir, I simply made time fo myself. Finding myself and doing the things I like to do. I got into school and I did hobbies to occupy my days. I will admit sometimes it's hard, but when you are learning about yourself and what you love and don't love, you will learn not to tolerate a lot of things from daddies or other people. It's worth the wait and it's worth the time. Sometimes it's fun to learn about the things you know you can deal with and the things you know you won't deal with. Patience is the key. Like I said things to do will take your mind off it. 

 

 

Before I had a daddy, I would do the same things. Color, watch cartoons and so on. I gave myself a set of basic rules. (Brushing my teeth twice a day, a bed time when classes were going on, no sweets past this time and stuff like that). You don't need a daddy to be little and get into little space (for some that does make it easier though).

 

I enjoyed my time as a single little , but I am happy I found my daddy now.

 

Thanks for the advice girls! I recently broke up with my ex and even tho I didn't know what being a little was, I was already acting it. Let's just say he always called me immature and was not understanding of my ways. I guess it's good time to reflect on that now. Hopefully I can find someone in the future who really gets me.

[phi]

I don't currently have a daddy either, but I try to make it fun for myself anyways! When I do something big and "adult-y" I make sure to reward myself with fun little things! It isn't always easy, but I've also found that it gives me a chance to really consider what it is I want in a relationship w/ a daddy, so I can be a bit more prepared if the right person comes along!

[DellaVanilla]

[Guest Isabelle]

I've never had a daddy I just do what I want with coloring, watching princess movies, etc. I just have no one to cuddle with or give luvs.

[Stuffiewuvz]

I has no daddy I twy to find one but they all fakes dat want sex last one I had used me for sex den left

[Stuffiewuvz]

I am wooking for a daddy

[Guest thelittlestcorgi]

I don't have one and I'm not looking. I'm in a polyamorous relationship with someone who is not into it, and someone else who is also a little (the other little is a long distance relationship). I prefer not having a caregiver because it's just...weird for me, I guess. I enjoy littlespace but I feel so uncomfortable with the idea of letting someone else care for me lately. That's probably an underlying issue that needs tackling, I guess. I like the idea but I feel like it would be a mess in practice because I'm so stubborn and fearful of everything. Does that make sense? I hope so :[

[Tiger_Corn]

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[Guest babydoe]

I don't have a daddy and I never have. It's nice to know that I'm not alone in this because it can make me feel kinda isolated seeing other littles who do have daddies. I'm not really looking for one right now because tbh I have too much going on with my mental health and I feel like it would be unfair to put that onto another person, even if they did have a caregiving role.

[hotpinksparkles7]

I have never had a caregiver. I sometimes get very lonely and depressed. I have friends who are okay with me getting into littlespace around them. they'll even call be pet names. I get into it at school sometimes but I am pretty discreet. I always color, read Little books, paint, craft, nap, and use my paci, sippy, blankey, and stuffies. I like to have little events with my stuffies like wedding or concerts.

[stargirlmimi]

i have never had a caregiver and dont really know anyone around me who is a little as well. sometimes i feel stuck but recently i bought a coloring book some markers and a new stuffie and i feel okay. i wish that i had a caregiver because i feel like it will fill that lonely hole i have but im not sure. i just ntry to make many little friends as i can, so i at least have someone to talk with.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Me and my dd just recently parted ways - its been a bit of a struggle but Im learning a little moreveey day about who little me is.... without Dominus. I like to set my laptop up in the bathroom and watch Netflix while in a bubble bath! I cuddle with my stuffies and color, I wear my cutest PJs and watch princess movies, I eat my meals off my princess plates! I still also sleep with my paci. I hope to make some more little friends on social media and stuff to hang out with it can get lonely some times but being Little solo is better than rushing into a Daddy who turns out to be a douche.

[prince-of-fluff]

this is all really good advice for kiddies who dont have daddies c:

[Guest lil-littleSpace]

I don’t have a daddy it can be Lonley especially when you have no one to play hide and seek or look at your colouring for me it’s about distraction movies going out the feelings pass it’s a time to get to know who you are what you enjoy rather then th negative side to it

[Guest xodoe]

When I don't have a Daddy, I do things like buy myself little gear, toys I want, and any other little trinkets that make my little side happy. I set time aside to go into little space. I do all of my favorite little things, and sometimes it helps to talk to myself like my Daddy would talk to myself. It's okay to nurture, love, and have fun with yourself even if at first it's a little awkward. It genuinely helps me.

[Bearly]

If I'm caught up in my tasks, I'll set aside a day a week to let myself be little. I have my toys out and a cartoon on and some comfort snacks, like kid cereal and candy. I let myself play with my toys, make as much noise with them as I want, laugh at whatever I want when watching a cartoon, and just let myself enjoy things in general.

[Bells-TheLittlePrincess]

I havent had a daddy for over a year. My fiancee doesn't get my little space. He doesn't like it. He thinks it is childish. I never really go into my little space anymore. I work 24-7 and only have weekends off. Right now my fiancee is sleeping and has been sleeping all day long.

[Torchwood3]

I haven't had a Daddy for about 4 years and it is very lonely but I have found when I go into little space it helps to have an imaginary "friend" to help me through it. Is it weird probably, but that is what helps me.

[pastelfaerie (gay little)]

I haven't had a Daddy for about 4 years and it is very lonely but I have found when I go into little space it helps to have an imaginary "friend" to help me through it. Is it weird probably, but that is what helps me.

You’re not the only one!! I’ve had a close imaginary companion since I was 11 (I’m 20 now). She’s mostly been my best friend but sometimes it got romantic because we’re very close. Lately I’ve been thinking about introducing a more deliberate CG/L dynamic between us. Our imaginary friends will always be there for us, and we’re there for them! uwu

[RoraDaExplorer]

I try to interact with other littles as much as possible, I have a few pen pals. I get myself a decent amount of toys when I can afford to. The new thing that has really helped me is keeping a bullet journal/planner. I keep a habit tracker on it and cross off days I remembered to brush my teeth, shower, make my bed, eat my veggies ect. link with cute examples below. 

 

https://blissdegree.com/43-amazing-habit-tracker-ideas-for-your-bullet-journal/ (SFW) 

Edited October 9, 2020 by RoraDaExplorer

[Kitten&Spice]

I myself fall under this category! I usually take time to do things for myself and discover my little space in more depth! I don’t really know how to explain how I cope with it since I do the normal things I would do if I had a daddy present! However I do tend to talk and cuddle my dog and cat a lot so that kinda makes up for the affection and attention I want!

[Torchwood3]

You’re not the only one!! I’ve had a close imaginary companion since I was 11 (I’m 20 now). She’s mostly been my best friend but sometimes it got romantic because we’re very close. Lately I’ve been thinking about introducing a more deliberate CG/L dynamic between us. Our imaginary friends will always be there for us, and we’re there for them! uwu

Im glad that I'm not the only one with an imaginary friend that is there for them.