People automatically referring to themselves as Daddy or Mommy

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

It's super awkward and unwanted. Being a Daddy is a special role. But assumimg the role of DD or CG with littles you've just met casualizes it.

[TeddybearCandyfloss]

Oooo Yes and No!

 

Yes, because them starting to refer to themselves (in context of speaking with you personally, not just in general) as your caregiver or Daddy/Mommy... Yeah, that's a bit pushy. I don't like pushy. Pushy is icky ;-; STRANGER DANGER!!!

 

No, because I get it. People in this lifestyle say princess. It's like in real life, some men may call younger girls Baby, Princess, Sweetie, things of that nature. That doesn't bother me in the slightest! They can call me pet names all they want as long as it isn't something personal they made up for me, the generic little nicknames though? Go for it. They try and make up something special for me though without being close to me first? That's also stranger danger, abort abort abort!

 

I agree with your second point, a lot of people in the lifestyle will refer to a sub they don't know as princess or sweetheart just from habit. That doesn't bother me, but the attempts to assert dominance instantly are so gross and annoying.