Soon to be busy Daddy, little sort of just there.

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

okay, let me introduce you to my current situation. i am a little who is bound to

her home. my medical issues do not allow me to drive nor work, i am in the 

process of getting disability and that will take up to six months before i will hear

an answer. so, basically, i'm at home all the time with very little to due do to my

fallouts since highschool and just not making new irl friends along the way. which,

i suppose i don't mind due the fact most of my close friends are people online who

i have visited irl. recently, my Daddy started going to school full time and works part

time - aka, full seven days of work and school. 

 

now the issue is that while i still get to speak to him during his days, that i love and 

appreciate but i am well aware that once school starts getting more intense, i'll 

have less time with him and i'm understand and well prepare for it - or so i thought.

i was in the process of considering a babysitter type of sorts for when he isn't around,

or can't give me attention, play games with me but now i know that after discussing 

that with my Daddy, he wouldn't be comfortable with him. and i'm okay with that, i

understand it. I wouldn't want him to have a little to act like a caregiver to. 

 

my Daddy did enjoy playing with me when we could find a game my computer could

handle but he often didn't like the types i did, he used to enjoy guild wars 2 but now

he doesn't. this is what i've been sinking my time into as of late to keep my days 

feeling a little bit less empty but now i'm sitting here with the desire to play games

and be little, but i can't, basically. i just end up playing everything alone and i've 

posted here to look for players but i think it just got lost in a different part of the 

forum and wasn't given much attention. i want littles, mommies, and daddies to play with. 

 

and before it's suggested that i find people in game to play with and waste

time away with, that'd be okay but it'd be nice to be able to get into little

space with the people i play with and make friends that go beyond just 

playing a game. 

Edited January 11, 2017 by ✨Tiny Squish✨

[lilsnoopy]

Maybe you could try making a personals but rather than looking for a romantic partner, look for little/middle/caregiver gamer friends. It would give you the chance to really fill out what you're looking for in a friend and what games and stuffs you like and would want to play. 

 

If he doesn't like the same games you do then you could both try new games together. I really enjoy board games and card games, so you could maybe try those. There are so many games out there to try that I'm sure you could find something you both like. Compromise is a beautiful thing. I'm sorry you're feeling alone :/ I know it's a bad feeling... I'm sure you'll find people though ^.^ 

[Guest QueenJellybean]

I agree with running a personal ad. There are definitely ones for little friends. This site is a great place to find them. I also suggest looking into a pen pal program, as writing letters and creating things to send to your friend will help with that stir-crazy feeling. 

 

Another suggestion I have is to look into local munches and events in your area. I don't know if you have access to public transportation, but there can be some really awesome events in your area with laid-back, low-key people if you know where to look.