How to make your little to respect you more?

[Alianty]

Mine is a little bit too bratty. I want her to respect me more, but she always does what she wants. That isn't necessary something bad, but sometimes it's too much and when i tell her, that i will have to teach her to respect me, she just doesnt care. 

After i do my teaching, she is calm for a while, but then she starts with it again. 

A little undisciplined brat she is.

[Tetrelle]

Might want to have a word with her and let her know you really aren't into her being so much of a brat. Explain to her that you love and support her, but the way she is acting is just too much for you. I hate to use the term break character, as it is a lifestyle not just a simple roleplay session, but she is a consenting adult to this lifestyle, so talk to her as an adult, not as a little for this. She may simply think she is being a cute little brat, unaware it is actually upsetting you, not just pushing your Daddy discipline buttons.

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

I realized after a long while, due to it not really being addressed because of how

sensitive i can get, that i was quite the disrespectful little girl both irl and online.

part if it was because i didn't realize my behavior was disrespectful because i am

a brat but i also joke around a lot and name call and do other little goofy things

that i didn't see as disrespectful. it wasn't until it was sat down and told that my 

Daddy was having issues with his own daddyspace that i realized and then

was eager to straighten up. i still am a playful little brat but i'm a lot more 

um.. aware of when it can be considered disrespectful. i also don't like the idea

of being spanked or having any other punishments.. so that's like the second

biggest factor of keeping me in check. besides the fact that i don't want to be

disrespectful and i like making my Daddy happy and feeling like one.

 

do you try punishments with her? maybe you ought to sit down with her and

create some that you are both okay with you executing. as a little, i don't like

being punished, i don't like being spanked or writing lines, i don't like the idea

of a timeout so i'm quick to reel myself in when i know i'm getting close to 

receiving a punishment - i just generally like to watch my behavior and be

more aware. 

 

maybe consider rewards for when she is being a good girl, rewarding good

behavior can be a good thing, i think. i don't want to make myself seem bad

but when there's a chance i can get a reward the idea of behaving even more

than usual is super appealing.i like the idea of a sticker chart, using that to

reward good behavior and taking away stickers for misbehaving. 

 

maybe if she doesn't really care like you claim, that she's disrespecting you,

tell her how it makes you feel as a person and as her Daddy, maybe going

the punishment/reward way won't fully fix the issue or be the way to go. 

Honestly? Daddy or no, respect should be given by both parties regardless

of being a little or no, it's part of a core to being in a relationship and without

it, it isn't much of one. you might just have to put being her Daddy aside

and speak to her, adult to adult if her disrespectful attitude is going that

far.

[Princess-P]

Being bratty is one thing but if you truly feel disrespected then its time for a serious conversation. She is an adult. Don't use terms like Daddy or pet names. Tell her as an adult you feel like she doesn't respect you as a person.

 

If you don't do it this way she may never stop. Sometimes it takes a real reality check for someone to realize what they are doing is hurtful. It will continue to harm your relationship, not just in the CG/l sence, but overall.

[Johnny Hammersticks]

Yes, it sounds like she may be testing your dominance, she might want you to be more strict with her. I would call her by her first name, and not really allow her to have little space til youve asserted yourself and she learns to give you the respect you deserve.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I am bratty, but I respect my Daddy completely. Disrespect and brattiness are not one and the same. Are you asserting your dominance enough? Does she need more rules, structure, different/more strict punishments? You two need to talk outside of your dynamic and establish some common ground. She needs to know that little or not what she is doing is NOT okay.

 

I am first and foremost a submissive. My Daddy is my Dominate. I respect his decisions in all things, even if I do not always agree with them. Outside of our dynamic he is my partner, my husband, my best friend. He has my utmost respect. I love him so incredibly much and my love for him demands respect for him. This issues needs to be addressed and is far deeper than DDlg.

[Guest SoloFairy]

Fellow brat here.

 

Consistency is the key. Decide on a line you will not allow her to cross and when she gets even a little close punish her. every.single.time. Each time the punishment becomes worse.

Prepare her for the new changes. Let her know what you expect and what you allow. Let her know what your warning signals are so she can stop herself before getting in trouble should she choose to.

The goal isnt to squash the brattiness just keep it reeled in.

[Guest Waiting4us]

With addition to teaching values and demonstrating tough love it is important for the Girl to learn that bad habits like emotional manipulation or not speaking her truth are toxic. The respect for her Daddy DOM is critical to the integrity of the relationship and discipline for these kinds of actions is a necessary part of the growth of a quality relationship. We should know that there will be consequences to come to form stability a girl needs. All I see is that understanding Daddies will not be excessively strict and will generate a punishment that is fair and appropriate. As they understand that discipline is a form of teaching and avoid the trap SM (sadomasocistic) punishment that can be out of line and inappropriate. As for DD and his girl learning to be disciplined is the lesson of the discipline. Overall a conversation and discussion at adult level is asked for.

 

And already great people have written good knowledgable things.

[Baby..Princess]

The only way I know when it's enough is when Daddy punish me with spanking. Only then do I know that I have done something wrong.He makes me take my dress up so he can see my booty and then he uses a belt. The bruises are lovely colors, but Mann it hurts. It's the right way to do it.