New to Ddlg

[Mclovin]

Hello,

Me and my significant other have decided to have a ddlg relationship in which I'm Daddy and she's my little. I am still extremely new and need all the help and information I can get before I feel 100% commited so I don't seem stupid. Any sites or anything containing information helps too.

Thanks!

[Guest Princessaj]

You are here. You found this site and it contains all kinds of information that will help you both.

 

If you want specific help, you have to ask exacting questions with sharing background info to explain who/what you and your partner are like- are about. Otherwise you won't receive any help or answers. We will have nothing to go on.

 

You have to give to get. People want to help, but you have just made a statement of being new and wanting to learn.

 

What do you want to learn? Be specific. Here are some things to get you started looking for info..

 

-If you don't know about the BDSM Lifestyle, search and read. DDlg comes from BDSM.

-Both the Daddy and the little have to agree on the rules, discipline, routines, punishment....everything. It's not one sided.

-Everyone interprets DDlg in their own way and when in a DDlg relationship. There are no right or wrong.

-Find out about your little's "little space" what does she like to do in her little space? Do some of her little activities with her. Learn how she likes to dress as a little. Some littles like their Daddy to pick out their cloths, some Daddies like to pick out their littles clothes.

-Learn about "aftercare" or some spell it "after care." When the Daddy has to take care of the little after she has been punished.

-Communication is very important. Talk, text, Skype, FaceTime... keep learning about each other's roles, likes, dislikes...

 

Both of you can read posts in all the categories and learn from other's questions and the answers they receive.

 

Being educated on both your own role and your partner's role is very wise.

 

Read all the articles in the "Resource" section by Spooky. She is a MOD = Moderator and is a DDlg Rock Star.

https://www.ddlgforum.com/forum/16-resources/ 

 

Read, read, read...make friends after reading their profiles. If you read a great comment by someone tell them and ask to be their friend. You can see the people who comment a lot. I have over 300 posts so that means I am very active on the Forum. Look for people with lots of posts to see how they share their wisdom and ask them questions too. Look for MODS and ask them for specific help...not broad statements or questions without details. Good luck. Hugs