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My Daddy works long hours and on top of that we're an LDR, I'm in England and he's California USA, meaning there's an 8 hour time difference. Also he has an extremely close family relationship and he (obviously) still needs to also make time for his friends and me. It's not easy. But you know what I understand, and understanding is the one thing that is crucial to have. You can't stop the fact that he works long hours to provide for himself and (possibly) you, you can't help the fact that he has responsibilities and other things he has to take care of but you can be understanding. Depending on the things he has to do after work perhaps you could help him to get them done. Or if you don't have any hobbies - get some. It's all a matter of being your own person as well as an extension of your partner. You have to be you before you can be an extension of them.

 

The simple fact of the matter is you can't do anything other than preoccupy yourself or leave him. Perhaps on his days off you could plan something nice like a movie night or a day out to the zoo, whatever floats your boat. 

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I am a busy (currently single) daddy as well, but I get to manage my time and energy to do things I enjoy. I understand it is frustrating for you, but this how life is for most mature men. Remember that you love him because he is mature and has a life.

 

However, the good news is, there are weekends, holidays, vacations he can take, so talk to him about time and energy management, don't be very demanding though because when life is busy, that means he is already under enough stress. Good luck

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My daddy and I have a pretty hard schedule, he works a lot and goes out of the country probably once a month. I'm a full time college student and I go to work. We don't get to talk much and it drives me insane sometimes, but the moments we do get to talk I cherish because I never know when I'll get to talk to him again. For me I talk to my other little friends they help me feel better when I'm sad and they give me a shoulder to cry on when I miss daddy. I'm not sure if that helped but you can always join out little chat group
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