White Knight Girl

[Himedere-Chan]

Hello~ I'm a fellow little and have been for a few years now. I've always had some desire to be a guardian around other girls, though I'm not homosexual by any means and nore do I think that's good or bad (just stating my sexuality encase someone mistakes what I'm asking.)

I looked it up and a lot of what came up was what people call "white knight syndrome", a lot of it related to men, actually all of it did and it made it out to be a bad thing, why? Wanting to defend someone shouldn't be frowned upon, no I don't see women as helpless creatures needing to be saved, in fact for my case it's quite the opposite! I feel like I want to be the knight to a queen, as she roles the country I defend it.

So if there are other like-minded girls or guys out there I'd like to hear it from you too, maybe even become friends someday.

[Guest littlevulcangirl]

I personally think you can assume any role regardless of gender. But I don't know if that's what you're asking

[Mikaitaku]

I am highly protective of people that I like or of people that seem to be mistreated. I have been bullied, ganged up on when I was younger so understand the feeling of being attacked and not having anyone there that would stand up for you or defend you and that is not something I could stand witness to and be able to stand idle.

 

I don't think there is anything wrong with being a white knight, and if anything we need more white knights out there. that being said you need to know when to act and when to just stand back and hold your tongue. Balance is the key to everything.

[Kara]

I find myself sticking up for other people all the time, when they need it, but when I really needed to stick up for myself (in certain situations) I have a harder time.  Be a white knight because this world needs more white knights and less people who don't care or will turn a blind eye.  

[Brume]

To clarify: when people call someone a white knight they are saying that that person is defending a girl just because he hopes that it will get him romantically or sexually closer to her (like it always happens in fairy tales with knights and all), which is a poopy thing to do. 

 

Maybe you could explain how you feel by saying you'd like to be a protective older sister to some other little? Is that sort of how you feel?

Edited January 29, 2017 by Brume

[gah!ghost]

While I do think that people can defend others for the wrong reasons in my experience "white knight" tends to be a term used by assholes and men more specifically. It seems to come from the idea that some men have that the only reason to be nice to a girl is to have sex with her. Don't know if that's the case I just have always felt that way when I have heard it used.