Daddy's_Babygirl Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 Hi guys :3 so I am presently on cloud 9 as Daddy just finished doing my nails and while he was doing them I couldn't help but wonder what other caregivers do for their littles that makes them feel extra special? Daddy paints my nails and sometimes does my hair, though this is less often. What do you do for your caregivers to try and make them feel special? For Daddy I try and help him pick his clothes for work the next day out in the evenings if he seems busy, I also try and work on some housework before work in the mornings so when he comes home sometimes it's like "surprise!"
stargirl Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 Daddy and I send each other letters, and he gets me my favorite chocolate treats
Guest QueenJellybean Posted January 4, 2017 Report Posted January 4, 2017 I love this thread idea! Being polyamorous, I have more than one Caregiver, which is great! I lean more towards the submissive end of the spectrum, so the things that they do that are most beneficial for me help center me, and remind of where I belong. Boss will yank my pigtails back to kiss me, and I really love the contrast between how rough he can be and how tender his kiss is. *swoons* He's also really good at calming me down, and can be incredibly patient with me in ways that I haven't been able to find elsewhere. He also makes me breakfast, and gives the best massages. And when he sings to me? Oh my lord. Alpha is a different kind of attention-giver because I live with Him and He's known me the longest. He's been known to paint my nails before too, actually! But I really love when He brushes and washes my hair. I'm in heaven. He also really likes to drive, so I get driven around a lot by Him, which is a nice feeling since I commute on my own to work and school pretty frequently. If He's got the day off when I have class, He'll offer to take me. But the best thing He does for me is manage our Household finances in a way that keeps me in the loop, but also out of the line of fire. It really stresses me out, and I love that He's willing to shoulder that burden, but also helps me learn how to do it too. He teaches me the most, I think. Guardian is the newest addition to my Dominants, and the most wonderful thing he does is write with me. He inspires my creative side, and when we write together, it makes me more willing to write in the future on my own! I like that we can share each other's words and music. 1
Daddy's_Babygirl Posted January 4, 2017 Author Report Posted January 4, 2017 I love this thread idea! Being polyamorous, I have more than one Caregiver, which is great! I lean more towards the submissive end of the spectrum, so the things that they do that are most beneficial for me help center me, and remind of where I belong. Boss will yank my pigtails back to kiss me, and I really love the contrast between how rough he can be and how tender his kiss is. *swoons* He's also really good at calming me down, and can be incredibly patient with me in ways that I haven't been able to find elsewhere. He also makes me breakfast, and gives the best massages. And when he sings to me? Oh my lord. Alpha is a different kind of attention-giver because I live with Him and He's known me the longest. He's been known to paint my nails before too, actually! But I really love when He brushes and washes my hair. I'm in heaven. He also really likes to drive, so I get driven around a lot by Him, which is a nice feeling since I commute on my own to work and school pretty frequently. If He's got the day off when I have class, He'll offer to take me. But the best thing He does for me is manage our Household finances in a way that keeps me in the loop, but also out of the line of fire. It really stresses me out, and I love that He's willing to shoulder that burden, but also helps me learn how to do it too. He teaches me the most, I think. Guardian is the newest addition to my Dominants, and the most wonderful thing he does is write with me. He inspires my creative side, and when we write together, it makes me more willing to write in the future on my own! I like that we can share each other's words and music. Oh JellyBean my Daddy and I were actually just talking about you! Since joining the community I do a whole lot of reading... and very little interesting outside of replies to posts. I have a decent memory about people though, so I've kept track of a few of your relationship dynamics and when Daddy asked a question about poly couples I was able to chime in with information about your dynamic. His response was "well... I can barely keep up with you! I give her props cuz that all sounds very confusing." Lol I LOVE these things! My Daddy drives everywhere we go as driving gives me anxiety. He also manages our finances, because though I'm frugal.... I fail to pay bills on time (I know, I know). He has been doing this for about three months because I ended up in tears over it. He told me he was sorry for not doing it sooner.
Guest QueenJellybean Posted January 4, 2017 Report Posted January 4, 2017 Oh JellyBean my Daddy and I were actually just talking about you! Since joining the community I do a whole lot of reading... and very little interesting outside of replies to posts. I have a decent memory about people though, so I've kept track of a few of your relationship dynamics and when Daddy asked a question about poly couples I was able to chime in with information about your dynamic. His response was "well... I can barely keep up with you! I give her props cuz that all sounds very confusing." Lol I LOVE these things! My Daddy drives everywhere we go as driving gives me anxiety. He also manages our finances, because though I'm frugal.... I fail to pay bills on time (I know, I know). He has been doing this for about three months because I ended up in tears over it. He told me he was sorry for not doing it sooner. Oh my gosh, this is the sweetest thing! Thank you! Tell your Daddy I can barely keep up with it myself! Hehe!
lilbug Posted January 5, 2017 Report Posted January 5, 2017 Daddy is in an important position at school so he gets his own office desk and he would let me store everything from medicine, food, water to even pads, and he would even keep a blanket there for me.Daddy would also give me tummy rubs when I'm have my Lucifer waterfall and rub my shoulders. And whenever we're alone, daddy would pick me up to kiss me and it made me feel really small and happy. c:
Eris Posted January 5, 2017 Report Posted January 5, 2017 Mine is very kind and considerate. I am at the dialysis and he cares for me when I am feeling sick after it. Changes my clothes, tucks me in, cuddles with me, holding me when I need to throw up etc. He holds my hand when we walk down the street because I am very clumsy and so he can catch me up. It's the little things that make me feel special, things he doesn't think about it because he thinks this should be natural behaviour but for me it's the whole world. On the other hand I am there for him when he feels sick, I brush his hair if he has a headache (he has long, lovely hair ), I bring my bratty side under control when he is busy and has his mind full of other things etc. Like with him, I do little things that feel natural for me and for him this are big things.
Daddy's_Babygirl Posted January 5, 2017 Author Report Posted January 5, 2017 It's so nice to see the things everyone does for their partner. It seems like quiet often we get caught up in what's not going right rather than what is. This morning I told my Daddy it had been a rough night full of bad dreams (I've had these since I was 15 and my dad died). He asked if it was cuz of the movie we watched and I said I didn't think so I've been having them a lot lately where someone or something is trying to hurt me. He assured me he wasn't going to let that happen and I told him I knew that but not when I'm asleep it feels real then. He said "I'll see if I can do anything to fix it..." now I have no idea what he might be able to do, but the thought that he is even trying to come up with anything just makes me happy.
peachsprite Posted January 5, 2017 Report Posted January 5, 2017 My daddy buys me pizza and runs me bubble baths (even though he can never get the bubbles as good as i can > ...) he also watches cartoons with me and helps me dye my hair ^-^ he also does sweet things like lends me money for work and food when im broke hes my physical and emotional crutch he just does everything he can too make me happy i love this post its really made me reflect and appreciate him more 1
CrazyLittleBuggaBoo Posted January 7, 2017 Report Posted January 7, 2017 Mister Master does a lot for me. He buys me cute snacks and treats. Sometimes he'll randomly bring home small toys for me. He works as a store stocker, alot of the time when he's at work if he sees something that reminds him of me, he'll get it for me. Like cute heart gummies, Pez candies, Mario Bros theme soups, StarWars mac and cheese, cookies etc Sometimes he plans sweet little "date nights" where he gets something yummy to cook((he's been a cook for a few restaurants and knows how to make some pretty damn good dishes )) He'll cook dinner for us and find good cartoon movie or scifi movie for us to watch. Sometimes he'll get special drinks like juice(orange or mango) or chocolate milk and he'll fill my sippy cup up for me. And we'll spend the morning together((cause well as nightshift workers that's pretty much is our night lol)) He worries about me and how I'm feeling, if I'm bored or sad. So he'll play with me sometimes. If I'm coloring he'll look at my pictures and tell me what he thinks or ask me questions about what I'm coloring. Sometimes he'll play with my stuffed granimals, make them dance around or makes them playfully hit me. Of course being short like I am and tall like Mister Master is, he'll also dangle them just out of my reach. He watches and helps me open my Shopkins. He'll take off the cardboard and outer plastic wrap and let me open the actual small bag with the Shopkins then help me find their name's and rarity on the check list. He helps add to my StarWars and Hello Kitty collections. And doesn't mind me sleeping with stuffed granimals in our bed. He ((usually)) takes out the trash. Heats up and cleans off the car on cold winter days. Pumps gas for the car, and whips off the windows when we're at the gas station. He'll buy my drinks for work or for the night when he goes in for cigs. He'll drive on long drives, busy highway drives, or bad driving anxiety days. When we are out visiting people or such he'll get me drinks. When or if we are offered food he'll usually make a plate for me even thou sometimes he'd rather I do it myself. lol Mister Master rubs my back and pats my head a lot. While hugging, or cuddling, or if I'm laying around. He'll pick me up. Over his should, on his hip, in his arms. Sometimes he'll carry me around or left me up and let me touch the ceiling. He'll help me lace my corset up when I wear one. Very rarely he'll help me zip or unzip my hoodie/coat. Very rarely he'll help me with getting undressed and ready for bed. ((I really really like having help getting dressed and changed, untying and tying of shoes. I wonder if I said something if I'd get help more)) He listens and deals with my temper tantrums, mood swings and emotionalness but also tells me when enough has been enough. I try to take very good cares of Mister Master. He's a gamer and I like to let him play his games after he gets home from work. He's worked hard all night, I believe he should relax and enjoy he's video games. I turn on the computer when we wake up in the morning and when he gets off work and get it ready for him to play games while he does just getting home from work stuff. I try to do things so he doesn't have to stop playing his game, like getting him drinks or keeping his cup full. Cooking dinner, making his plate and bringing it to him. I try to keep the house as clean as I can. I try to keep our room clean and organized with a place for both of our stuffs. I try to stare all my snacks and treats with him. He has really really long hair, sometimes I help him brush out all the tangles. Which I really enjoy probably more than him lol I always thank him((literally at least three times)) over and over when he gets or does stuff for me. I tell him he's amazing and wonderful and try to remind him often that I appreciate everything he does for us.
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