Asexual Little

[Guest Pr1nc3ss]

So I was wondering... A lot of DDLG relationships I've heard about do have a sexual side to them... are there any other littles here that have no interest in that side of the relationship and only want to be taken care of like me?

if so what has your experience been with your Caregiver?

[Guest LiddlePwincess]

Im not an asexual little myself but I do have a very good friend who is a Daddy and also asexual.

 

You just have to find someone who has the same feelings as you. Its like gay littles looking for gay cargivers. Not everyone will fit within that group but there is still people out there looking for it.

[MellyBoo19912015]

First off, welcome to our community and I hope you enjoy it here!

 

Now as generally known to some people I'm asexual and my daddy is sexual. It shouldn't work I hear you cry but it does. We are also LDR so that makes it even more complicated. It involves talking and working hard and setting boundaries and all the normal things relationships involve. There is an article in the resource section (written by me) which has some great links and you are welcome to message me if you want to talk. I'm an admin so you don't even have to add me.

 

Here is the article: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/10832-asexual-ddlg/

 

Please know there is a place for you here and again welcome.

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

I am not asexual((somedays I feel like I could be thou lol)) I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with an asexual person. I've seen a few things around about asexual littles, sadly things like that seem to get over shadowed by people who insist that CG/L is nothing more than a BDSM kink. Very stupidity heated topic there. CG/L can be a kink. CG/L can be a lifestyle. CG/L can be both. It doesn't matter much where it started, how it started, or why it started. Some people can't see it as anything but sexual. Yet some Littles turn and run in fear at the thought of sex in Little Space. I've seen alot of Littles say things about how being sexual only bring them out of their Little Space. Others really seem to enjoy it. Weather or not it started as purely kink or not doesn't change the fact that with people learning and fitting their way into it CG/L has grown and evolved with us and to fit us more. The biggest thing is to be open and honest. If your asexual and no wanting to be sexual at all you have to say so right away. If your ok with them being sexual with someone else, you got to let them know right away. This is what I'm looking for in my relationship and this is what I'm willing to do in my relationship. Platonic CG/L relationships are out there, and happen more than you think. They just get over shadowed by sex craved populous.

[Guest Maru]

I'm unsure if I'm ace or there's another reasoning behind my feleings towards sex (it's a bit more personal than I want to write here) but when in little space, sex is an absolute no-no. Little space is for me to be the child I want to be, and I do not want any sex in that. I don't care if others have sex in their cg/l relationship, just not for me.

[Guest ammy]

I think maxi said it waaay better than I could have. I never, ever ever want things to do with sex. I've seen WAY more cg/l relationships that kinda, revolve ? around it being sex related than no sex,  it kinda makes me sad. But I mean, you're not alone in feeling that way

[Guest EmTheDemiFairy]

I'm a heteroromantic asexual little girl and I would love to have a Daddy Dom. Unfortunately, it hard to find both someone who wants a caretaker/little relationship and a nonsexual one. I'm not just talking about sex within CG/L, but period. While I am sex indifferent enough to have sex with someone I love and trust, it is still difficult because I can't really get into it and am only doing it for the other person because I love them. Edited July 8, 2017 by EmTheDemiFairy