kittenshorts95 Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 I'm little and I follow a few DD/lg groups on social media and there is a girl who is a little/slave in her dynamic with her Daddy/Master and she explained her dynamic somewhat and I'm very interested in others that have entered in simular dynamics. My Daddy and I first started out in the BEST community calling our dynamic just the regular Dom and sub roles but it never felt right and we're very happy today in a 24/7 DD/lg dynamic but I'm very curious about how I could incorporate slave into my role as little... it's something we walk close to but haven't really explored. Any experiences you have that are related and you would like to share would be greatly appreciated.
NottsDaddy Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 In my experience they certainly arnt incompatible; for me it was actually the other way around in that my slave become my Baby-Girl as well so always had both aspects in our relationship; obviously there are different points of emphasis in each dynamic and its a case of working out what works for you and when.
Guest QueenJellybean Posted January 4, 2017 Report Posted January 4, 2017 My submissive/slave identifies as a little, and it's working fine for her! We're also polyamorous, so that helps because her differing roles can be filled by different partners. Basically, the dynamic is what we make it; she is a little house slave in the sense that she enjoys cleaning up our home, and looking cute while doing it. She enjoys degradation, and we do what she enjoys. But she always gets to curl up on a lap at the end of the day. It's all about balance, and learning what your partner wants out of the relationship. The relationship is what you make it. There shouldn't be a right or a wrong as long as everyone is informed, consenting, and of age. (: 1
ziva vlad's kitten Posted January 7, 2017 Report Posted January 7, 2017 I am both a little and a slave. I wouldn't have it any other way, for me it is the best thing ever. Find what works for you and yours and enjoy
LittleMommy Posted January 8, 2017 Report Posted January 8, 2017 (edited) . Edited January 14, 2017 by LittleMommy
Guest SoloFairy Posted January 8, 2017 Report Posted January 8, 2017 Daddy and I have a mixture of all the dynamics in our relationship. We identify mainly with the DD/lg community however we both consider our dynamic to lean more strongly on the D/s side of things. There is a dabble of M/s in there as well. It's not as strong as the other two but there are definite traits where M/s plays a strong role and we're both taking small steps towards TPE so it seems. I consider myself to be his submissive first and foremost with a priority to obey and please him. 2
Bunniegural Posted January 11, 2017 Report Posted January 11, 2017 i'm Uram's slave and He's the first (and only) Dom i've ever had.
SharkPrince Posted January 12, 2017 Report Posted January 12, 2017 Ayyyy I was a sub who became a little thanks to my girl's curent influence
XCricketx Posted January 13, 2017 Report Posted January 13, 2017 I been both for years now. Happy too ^.^
Guest banana Posted January 13, 2017 Report Posted January 13, 2017 I'm a little and a slave, and I don't know...we're just making things work for us... You have to find the balance there isn't a time when you have to be a little and another when you have to be a slave, it's just sometimes daddy gets super cuddly and I'm his little girl and another moment he acts super dominant and I assume my position of slave We behave the way we want when we feel like it and it worked so far 2
LilPetPet Posted June 26, 2017 Report Posted June 26, 2017 Hi i know this is an older thread but i would like to chip in. I am a little slave. I see M/s as the structure of our Marriage, as we follow God's order for men and women in marriage, but our personalities are Daddy/little. And since the Bible teaches that marriage is a symbol of Christ and the Church, i think ddlg contributes to that because God is our loving Father and we are His trusting children. 1
HisuianLilligant Posted June 26, 2017 Report Posted June 26, 2017 I'm a 24/7 little but I think slaves are treated completely different, more harsh, etc. My daddy and I are in a TPE though-he's in charge of absolutely everything (scheduling, money, etc)
mylittlesidewearsblack Posted June 26, 2017 Report Posted June 26, 2017 I'm a slave 24/7 and a middle in personality all the time and little sometimes. Is that clear as mud? Lol 1
LilPetPet Posted June 26, 2017 Report Posted June 26, 2017 @DaddysPrinceBenBen, i have seen how that can be true, (that slaves are treated harshly), but it doesn't have to be like that. My Husband is a Christian and Jesus tells him to love me sacrificially and value me. So he always has my best interest at heart. He is firm with me but because of my issues I can't really handle punishment too well so he guides me and scolds me when I need it but he is never harsh like what other Masters are. And it's because the Bible says he has a Higher Master that he is accountable to.
lil_kitty_emmy Posted June 27, 2017 Report Posted June 27, 2017 I identify as both a slave and a little. I don't think that they are incompatible. However, I think it depends on how slave is defined by the people involved?
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted June 30, 2017 Report Posted June 30, 2017 I'm a slave. I live in a TPE. My dominus does not treat me harshly but I am very rigidly structured in all things. I am cherished and cared for like any valued thing. All being a slave means is you hand over your life. You find pleasure in serving your master and find purpose in your bondage. My Daddy is my Dom first and foremost - I am a Slave who identifies as a Little. My duties as a slave come before all things and I put my complete trust in Dominus to make the best decisions for me. For us it fit because whether its in a Daddy mindset or a Master mindset he holds the reins of my life. He cares for me and provides everything I need and in return I give him my complete submission - I fulfill his needs as a Master be it sexual, service, etc 1
plumflower Posted July 2, 2017 Report Posted July 2, 2017 My Daddy an i are a mixture. My Daddy is actually a Sadist Master first and foremost but since we met he's been embracing his Daddy side and have been learning my slave side. But Daddy is also the owner of my pet, the tamer of my brat, the protector and sir of my sub and the master of my slave. It can work. 1
Littlejacob Posted August 20, 2017 Report Posted August 20, 2017 I am both a slave and a little, the two are actually related. Most DDlg, DDLB, MDlb, MDlg start out in some sort of power play dynamics. Whe the bottom is notified they will be becoming a little so the Dom partner can assume more control is when these "off chute relationships" are formed. I myself would not have it any other way nothing like wearing a t shirt, diaper and collar for your Dom.
boomslang Posted August 21, 2017 Report Posted August 21, 2017 We are all over the BDSM map, and all of my "roles" are completely blended together. I'm very much a masochist with slave tendencies, but I'm also Daddy's precious Princess. The different sides fuel each other. The more cuddles and soft whispers and "good girls" I get, the more intense the pain play gets, for example. The more intense the play, the more subservient and little I feel and the more possessive Daddy becomes. It's taken us a while to work out the kinks (LOL PUN!), but it's a very smooth cycle these days.
TinyPinkBall Posted August 29, 2017 Report Posted August 29, 2017 Well I'm a little but I'm super submissive, so I kind of automatically become a slave to my daddy. I'd do whatever he'd tell me to do as long as it would make him happy, because if I'm able to please him and make him happy, I'll be happy as well. I guess the easiest way to explain it is that his happiness is my happiness c:
Daddy_Bear7 Posted August 31, 2017 Report Posted August 31, 2017 There's no right or wrong mixture, it's whatever works for you and feels right which should be embraced. With my little, on the one hand I'm a devoted caregiver but I know and completely understand that she's at her happiest and most contented when she's kneeling at my side. I think the two things can work perfectly together DB
Norwegianman Posted September 1, 2017 Report Posted September 1, 2017 My little is both but she started out as my little and we slowly moved over to her also being my slave and it's worked well. I'm her daddy when she needs me to be and I'm her master when she wants/needs that too
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