lilbug Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 Hi, I'm really new to the community so I'm really curious, is it normal that our relationship changes a lot? I've only been with my SO for over a month but we've been friends for a while. I told him about my little space very very recently, like a week ago I think, he have been very accepting and taken part as my daddy.But as I saw from others ddlg relationships, they stay in dom and sub dynamic through out without change. For us, it's different. When I'm in little space, I'll be sub and do as I'm told. However, when I'm out of it, I take charge of our relationship as my SO follow. Example : Little space me will follow rules as daddy set them and accept my punishments without question when I'm being bratty. Big me will make my boyfriend do his homework, help him do his assignments if he need and have him tell me the work he has to do. Is this normal?
Guest Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 It's nomal. Some people are into 24/7 ddlg, others can turn it on and off. Both are totally fine. I think it's awesome that you help your boyfriend make sure to stay on task for his benefit.
splendabae Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 as long as you're both happy, there's nothing wrong with it. you both sound very supportive of each other, that's good!
Daddy's_Babygirl Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 Sounds in fact like you may both be switches and it's normal for many people. I can't offer you any advice there as I am a 24/7 little/middle myself.
fluffiepinkiecutie Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 I agree with the others. It's absolutely normal to be a little different (aren't we all?), so don't worry about it! If you like your dynamic, why you should change it? Enjoy it and keep being who you are ^^
TheGiftedStars Posted January 3, 2017 Report Posted January 3, 2017 That sounds like the relationship im in.
switchlittleloves Posted January 7, 2017 Report Posted January 7, 2017 As the others above me have said, your relationship is totally normal! You're both just switches, and that honestly is the way to go in my eyes. I'm a switch too, and I think it's more healthy that way anyway. (Switching gender roles is a fun idea too, if you ever can find it in yourselves to do it )
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