Question about uppity/stubborness

[ChibiPuppy]

I was wondering how other littles go about this. For the first time I am currently with my girlfriend (big sis in the dynamic) physically and I get to be in littlespace a lot. But sometimes when I talk back, am stubborn or straight up uppity I get this feeling that I might be a bother to her.

 

Personally I am not sure how to go about this. Do I stop when I feel I am stepping to far or should I try and push that off as anxieties (which it likely is anyway)? I mean, I should be able to trust her to tell me when I am going to far, or at least so I imagine, and I am just curious as to how other littles generally go about this. Do you trust in your trust in them, or do you have to kinda of limit how you do it yourself? Sorry if the question is badly phrased, not entirely sure how to phrase it otherwise though.

 

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[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Okay so... before I answer let me try to clarify your question.

 

I believe what you are asking is: when your stubborn/talk back you feel like you're bothering her and you're trying to figure out if you should set your own limits or trust that she will tell you when to stop, correct?

[ChibiPuppy]

Exactly, thank you.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Okay well the advice I have is soley an opinion based on my relationship with my Daddy/husband.

 

I am a bit bratty... Daddy doesn't much care for this. I truthfully do not do it on purpose and don't realize I do. I take my hints from him. He lets me know when I'm pushing it too far, and I try to heed his warnings. That's the best you can do, I feel.

[ChibiPuppy]

I appreciate your response. Honestly I feel that I agree with what you're saying and from what my own big sis says, I should just trust her to tell me off and give me hints when I go to far since I generally don't realize I do it either. Appreciated ♥ ♥

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

You're welcome.

 

I say if she says trust her, just do that. We littles are hard to handle and our Bigs know this.... it's part of the package, even when we aren't bratty there is a lot that goes into caring for a little. If they didn't want that side of things.... they wouldn't be a Big.

[Bunniegural]

my Uram and i have this, even outside little space. i'm very used to people indirectly hinting things or implying rather than being 'rude' (not sure if it's a passive-aggressive communication in my family or a Canadian culture thing) so i'm always on the lookout for Him hinting that i'm bothering Him. He has told me a million times that He does not hint, He always what He wants, but i am working on trusting that!