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Creepy daddies make me cringe (a status discussion /rant)


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Okay so I made a status saying how some daddies on here are creepy. (To me and it seems like a few others from the response I got to the status). It seems to have made a lot of buzz so here we are.

Now let me make a disclaimer before some people get butt hurt. I DO NOT mean all daddies on this site are creeps. I DO NOT mean there are not shady / creepy littles on the site. I am simply stating my discomfort for some of the behavior I have seen. (And it's not always something that is reportable. )

Keep things peaceful. Don't call anyone out by name. This is not meant to be used to bully anyone. Hopefully it may ever help some people see the errors in their ways and not being creepy af.

Now one thing I have noticed is there seems to be a lot of daddies handing out very distasteful "compliments". There is a line between hey you look really nice , and girl let me totally objective you as a female because I am a Dom and I don't see vaule in your as a person. (may not be what they meant to do but that's definitely how it comes off to many.)

There are also daddies that compliment EVERYONE. It's cool you wanna make someone feel nice but when you are hitting on every little that post a photo it really seems like your throwing out as much bait as you can in hopes to catch as many littles as you can. (Which is pretty rude in my opinion.) If you want to find a little take the time to get to know someone one on one, not "hey your cute", hey your are cute too and you and all other 20+ girls I have told the same thing to today. It is not gonna make someone feel special when you throw complaints ,like monkeys throw their shit at the zoo.

Copy and pasted replies to personal ads. (Which I believe is against the rules. Have seen littles and Dom's guilty of this.) Again , when your going after as many people as you can at once it seems really thristy and desperate.

The hey gurl let me slid into your personal messages type. You know the guys that comment on every Little's status to "talk" or "get to know them" when a little says they are a bit down. Most of the time you can tell when someone is genuinely trying to be a good person and help them out and when a guy is trying to get to a little when they are vulnerable.

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It's not just the "daddies". I've seen many of "littles" who just want attention from anybody they can get it from. I raise red flags when I see either a "daddy" or a "little" just fishing for attention. It creeps me out. 

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It's not just the "daddies". I've seen many of "littles" who just want attention from anybody they can get it from. I raise red flags when I see either a "daddy" or a "little" just fishing for attention. It creeps me out.

 

like I said in the disclaimer, I didn't say littles are not creeps. I am just talking about what I have noticed.

 

But yeah super big red flags when littles do this kind of thing as well. (I have just noticed a ton more daddies acting blah lately. But then again I just may not be paying attention or notice it as much from littles)

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like I said in the disclaimer, I didn't say littles are not creeps. I am just talking about what I have noticed.

 

But yeah super big red flags when littles do this kind of thing as well. (I have just noticed a ton more daddies acting blah lately. But then again I just may not be paying attention or notice it as much from littles)

 

I'm just saying stuff that makes me cringe also. 

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I'm just saying stuff that makes me cringe also. 

Ah okay.  But yeah I have seen some rather shady stuff pulled by littles to get attention as well. that is true  

sorry for the misunderstanding 

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100% agree with this and I know you got some heat for posting that status. I feel like if you have a problem with something like this your generally the type of person thats being mentioned. There are good people here and there are bad people here its just a fact of life. Dont hate on someone for speaking a truth you may not like. Well dont for having the courage to stand by what you believe! Happy new year <3

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