Overloveingdaddy Posted December 30, 2016 Report Posted December 30, 2016 I'm the overloveing daddy, the one who drops everything to take care of all his littles wants/needs even if it pushes aside my own personal wants. My little is not good at manogamy she is more of a poly person.she is madly in love with me and a friend of hers whom she has known for a long time. Up to this point it's been me and her and she wants to try poly with said friend. All I want is for her to be happy. Can someone tell me how I can make this work for her? Btw said friend is another daddy who could be my twin when it comes to feelings towards her.
splendabae Posted December 30, 2016 Report Posted December 30, 2016 ok, first things first, are you comfortable being in a poly relationship? it's ok to not be, it's not everyones thing. if you aren't, you shouldn't try to force yourself to be in one. it could lead to many problems. but it seems like you're open enough to try it, that's great! if the other daddy is willing i would suggest getting to know them, even if it's just as friends. maybe go out as a group to a movie or skype calls. treat it like you would any other relationship basically. and remember to communicate everything!!!
Beasourous Posted December 30, 2016 Report Posted December 30, 2016 First, you got to put yourself first. Will you be happy sharing her with another daddy? If yes, then get to know the guy first as well as what are the expectations from him and your little. If you think that you won't be happy sharing, then it will be best to let your little know and see where it goes. Communication is the key.
Overloveingdaddy Posted December 30, 2016 Author Report Posted December 30, 2016 Thank you so much. I'm gonna try this for her. I'm not sure of my opinion yet. I think it's best to give it a shot and let her know once I truly know how I feel
Guest Waiting4us Posted December 30, 2016 Report Posted December 30, 2016 You, yourself matter first. The first priority needs to be you. It is great and yes we should love the other from heart but if we sacrifice our values that would only prove we don't love self. To be selfish is not bad in relationships. You need to talk to her and see what she finally wants. Love is sacrifice at times but not putting away self values If your love is strong to hold her, it will.
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