How old is too old to be a daddy

[Guest Stevecarr998]

I've been a daddy for over twenty years and still love the lifestyle

 

I haven't had a little one for over a year

 

I'm 51 years old but have lots of experience and life love left in me

 

Just wanted to know if I'm too old

[Guest The_Jacobin]

No you aren't. I'm 52. My first ddlg relationship started in 1989.

There are quite a few LGs that want a mature Daddy.

 

Don't give up, brother.

[NottsDaddy]

I've been a daddy for over twenty years and still love the lifestyle

 

I haven't had a little one for over a year

 

I'm 51 years old but have lots of experience and life love left in me

 

Just wanted to know if I'm too old

thats just saying are you too old for relationships; you arnt dead by a long shot!

[Guest Stevecarr998]

Thanks guys made me feel good

 

Wish they had sites like this back in the 1980's

[Guest Sephi]

One is never to old to be a daddy! Or a little!

[Prince_Towelie]

Good question.  Thanks for asking.  And also to those who answered.  Cheers.

[Princess-P]

Your not too old to be a Daddy, its something that's just in you.

 

However if your expectations are a very young little then you may run into a few bumps.

 

CG/l has become rather mainstream. Therefor you run into a lot of people who are just jumping on the bandwagon. These people are more interested in the superficial aspects. For someone who has been a member of the community for so long it will be a grueling task to pick your way through the mainstreamers.

 

Its not impossible, far from it. My suggestion is to take older littles into consideration as they often take the dynamic more seriously. This is just a general statement of course as there are exceptions on both sides.

[Guest Stevecarr998]

Thank you princess P

 

Totally understand

 

Thanks for the advice

 

Steve xxx

[Guest Kali]

48 here... I think older Daddies have a lot to give. I agree it may be difficult to care for a young little, as there will inevitably be a somewhat broad chasm in life experiences, but it's not insurmountable. Keep the faith.

[Guest MissBehaving]

Never too old! Personally I'm only interested in Daddies who are 40+ so don't give up, I believe there's someone for everyone

[Guest ZenDD]

Just curious here, and peripheral to your topic too, but I'm always perplexed when someone says they have years of experience with DDlg/Cgl (in your case over two decades) and yet asks a question like "am I too old to be a Daddy?" No one knows everything about anything, even with years of experience, but the most common thing that should be known about DDlg/Cgl is that biological age is actually of zero relevance to the DDlg concept as long as both participants are consenting adults. 

 

Your question really seems to be whether you're too old for an 18 to 21 year-old little, which again, the answer would obviously be "no." Some people are opposed to large age gaps, some are not, and some are actually attracted to them. But that attraction or lack thereof is a separate issue, just as an attraction to tall or short, or skinny or big, curvy women would be. Again, these are issues of attraction, but not issues within the DDlg/Cgl concept at all. 

 

In other words, just because an older man is attracted to young women does NOT mean he is into DDlg. By the same token, a young woman who is attracted to much older men is NOT necessarily into DDlg. Separate issues.

 

Are you using this post in attempt to attract some younger littles to jump up and say that they're open to a Daddy in their 50's, as an extention to your personal ad? A clear, well-crafted, honest personal ad focusing on what you're looking for should be enough to find a compatible partner if you are patient.

 

Now, are you really 51? Because you mentioned that you "Wish they had sites like this back in the 1980's," and maybe some very young youngsters might not know but most people in their 40's and 50's know that the internet wasn't even commercially viable in the '80s. It wasn't until the early/mid 90's that it actually became a relatively widespread, user-friendly, pc technology. And you say you have "been a daddy for over twenty years and still love the lifestyle", but if you've got, let's say, 22 years of experience as a Daddy that would be starting in about 1994, so why would you wish for this kind of a website in the '80s? I just thought the math was curious. I'm a nerd, I pay attention to such things when people post ages and info that sometimes doesn't add up. I don't mean to be a cynic, just wondering out-loud.

 

(edited for spelling)

Edited December 29, 2016 by ZenDD

[Guest Stevecarr998]

Hi

 

I am 51 born in 1965 and got into Ddlg with my wife in 1992 I did mean to put 1990's sorry.

 

I do see your point that I still am learning

 

When I started we used to go to fettish clubs in soho as there wasn't a big scene back then

 

Steve xxx

[Johnny Hammersticks]

[PurringKitty]

I am 52 and I will always always be a little. I have always been attracted to older men my entire life (for their nurturing ways and maturity) and the only thing that ever got me off track as a little was when I didnt feel cherished or the man was selfish, or the mechanics didnt work. The first two are insurmountable, the last one isnt.

 

I attract 28-30 year olds often when I am out in social circles, and what most of them dont understand is that a shallow perspective on sex is quite boring to me.  Many times if a man's life experiences are not deep enough for my tastes, he can always make up for that by being nurturing and caring and by being a great listener and learner. That in itself is sexy.

Edited December 30, 2016 by PurringKitty

[Guest Waiting4us]

There is no age limit. Age is just a number. Life is to live, learn and experience it. So you can be a DD or Master or Little or Sub at any age when you feel you are ready and enjoy the lifestyle. Ddlg D/S is not just a kink, it is the way we many like love to continue so there cannot be any number deciding it. Be you, yourself and live life as you want.

[Guest itsbabygirlbean]

I love older men!! Always have, always will.

 

One is never too old to be a Daddy!

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

Agreed with babygirlbean, i also love older daddys, id rather have an older daddy then a younger daddy. There is no age thats "to old" to be a daddy

[Frog]

I'm glad this thread was created. I had similar concerns so it's good to read the replies.

[Guest Stevecarr998]

I'd like to thank you all for your advice

 

Feel a lot more confident

 

If any of you ever need any advice just let me know

 

Kind Regards

 

Steve xxx

[Guest itsbabygirlbean]

I'd just like to add that there's something about an older Daddy that I thoroughly enjoy. I love the life experience that comes from someone older than myself, and I always like learning from the experiences of another.

 

Just my two cents.

[Frog]

I'd just like to add that there's something about an older Daddy that I thoroughly enjoy. I love the life experience that comes from someone older than myself, and I always like learning from the experiences of another.

 

Just my two cents.

Thank you so much for that. It made me feel better. Edited January 14, 2017 by Frog

[DeepSpaceDaddy]

What about too old to START being a daddy? I'm 42 and have never even been a daddy in real life, let alone this alternate(?) one. :-/

[PrincessClara]

You don't have to have children IRL to be a Daddy in a DD/lg relationship. You aren't too old to begin your journey either. Just have to find a little that compliments you and that you can care for and there ya go! 

[LittleLola]

I also love older Daddy's! They have much more life experience and (mostly) knowledge! I cannot see myself with a younger Daddy than me... I prefer 40+ men, not just as a Daddy!

[Frog]

What about too old to START being a daddy? I'm 42 and have never even been a daddy in real life, let alone this alternate(?) one. :-/

I'm with HisPrincessBrattyFace on this one. Being a ddlg daddy and a father/real-life daddy are different. I seem to always attract younger women, accepting the roles of uncle or big brother to them.

 

I give advice, a sympathetic ear, guidance, etc. A long time ago I felt bad for having feelings for some of them, until I discovered DDlg. I don't plan to have children but it would be nice to be a daddy.