Getting rid of your little?

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

This may sound odd, but has anyone ever tried to get rid of their inner little? Is it something that can be accomplished? What have you tried?

[TinyTwaddle]

I have. It didn't work well if at all. Little space for me has always been my escape and so when I denied myself that escape it ended up taking a toll on my health and in turn on my relationships with others. In a weird way I took out my frustration I had out on other people and it just didn't work out very well.

 

I find myself wanting to sometimes just "be normal" or rather completely vanilla, but there always seems like there is something missing. Don't learn the hard way like me and just embrace the craziness of having little space. 

[splendabae]

sounds painful. i've never tried and dont think i will. it's a part of who i am, and it'll make me really depressed if i had to hide or repress that.

[Guest doomsdayduckie]

As someone who recently discovered their little, I can't imagine living without little space. I had suppressed and denied all the parts of me that related to little space, because I thought it was wrong and therefore there was something wrong with me. Honestly, I now prefer little space as much as possible. I was incredibly unhappy before I learned about ddlg and that it was okay to have little space and to want a ddlg relationship. I am still learning about my little space and sadly have to hide it from my friends and family because they would never understand. But I am incredibly happy because I has my little space and I look forward to meeting the right Daddy. I am not actively looking for a Daddy because I am still learning about my little space and can't expect someone else to take care of my needs if I don't know what they are. Sorry to blabber on and on. XD

 

In short, I don't think I could ever get rid of my little; I lived too long without it and now I can't imagine my life without it.

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

I defiantly couldnt "get rid" of my wittle side, ive been learning and experiencing my little side more and more and find it very relaxing and it helps me deal wif alot. I hid my wittle side for a long time and even denied it sometimes to, to try and fit in wif other people but it never works out in the end. Me being wittle is just a part of who i am :3

[Magi]

Is there a reason you would want to get rid of your little?

[DaddysMonkey]

Hello there !

 

I personally don't believe it is possible to " get rid of " your little side if you are truly a little. However , I do believe it is possible to deny what you are , repress your inner little or little space feelings , ignore your feelings as a little , or just "give up" in a sense because you aren't feeling content or satisfied in your space.

 

Denial is something I experienced before I know what a little was. I knew what age regression was , and always told myself " I don't do that , that's not me. "  BOOOOOOOOOOY WAS I WRONG. In fact , I was a little but didn't know it yet. I resented children and still do for numerous reasons , and always thought that there was no way I could regress or that is what I was doing. I just thought I was childlike or liked " kid stuff ". After watching a certain documentary about the DD/LG / ABDL lifestyle , I broke down in tears. It took time , and a specific way of touching my heart but I eventually came to terms with what I am and I wouldn't trade it or " get rid of " being little for the world. 

 

Oh , and yes I still hate kids. Hehe ^-^

 

Hope this helps !

[little5993]

i use to be ashamed of my little but now that i see here that I'm not alone i feel ok

[Guest SugarNSpiceSam]

For the longest time I used to try to deny it and keep it away. Sometimes I even tried to ignore it and hope that it would go away. The more that I did this, I ended up becoming very sad. When I noticed that this was apart of me, it used to scare me and I felt as if I was weird or that something was wrong with me. Than once I was using a rather softer voice, something like a child would do with one of my boyfriend's. I was baby talking to him and I wanted him to talk to me in a certain way. Overtime he made me feel comfortable about myself and who I was as a whole person. Anytime I was alone with him, I felt safe and appreciated for who I was truly was. I don't do it on purpose or anything, it naturally flows with me the way I talk. It doesn't happen all the time either. Sometimes it comes out of me without me even noticing it. Just be yourself and be happy who you are.

 

Don't let others try to change you or try to tell you that you shouldn't be this way. If you're ashamed, scared or afraid what people think of you, I totally understand because I've been there before. Just try to think happy thoughts the best you can. I know it can be hard sometimes due to what happens in real life. One day when your alone and comfortable, color and put on your favorite kid's movie. Let it naturally come out of you little by little, don't ever force it. Hope this helps!

Edited December 29, 2016 by MysticalDreamer83

[Lil_ dinosaur6026]

I know how you feel I try to get rid of my little space but every time I do it’s catch up to me and I gets worse every time. I came find out its whom I am and accepted it and just embraced it. if you ever need a friend, you can always hit me up.

Edited May 3, 2023 by Lil_ dinosaur6026
wanted to add more stuff to my comment with out making new comment..

[fushidarananeko]

I tried to get rid of my little side once. 

I got rid of a bunch of my toys and books.

And then I cried.

 

It was definitely not a good idea for me to try and erase such a big piece of who I am.

I am glad though that the stuff I got rid of, went to other little friends.

And I do still struggle with being little and silencing that voice in my head that says it is bad,

but I don't think I could ever get rid of it completely.

[~*LilGirl*~]

Hello, I tried once a while ago to just forget about this side of me. Living in an area where it’s a small town, everyone knows everyone, I had to be cautious or I would get hunted down. So I one day, bagged up all my stuffies, threw out my coloring books and sippy cups hoping that those feelings would just... stop. But I couldn’t get away from it. My Daddy was super concerned throughout this process, considering it was also my coping mechanism for stress. It put me in a more depressive state then anything. Then one day, I came home from work, all my stuffies were out in the living room, my favorite little space movie was on with a sippy waiting, and he was cooking Mac n cheese and Dino nuggets. Luckily it was a weekend and I was able to regress for most of the weekend till work came on Monday. But honestly, getting rid of that side was such a terrible decision, I would never ever do it again. Being a little makes me happy and safe, and I will do whatever it takes to stay that way ❤️