[Artsyprincess]

I had a thing with a dd for almost 2 mouths.

We used to talk every day on fb chat and stuff he was too perfect to be true, but two weaks ago he just disappeared, i think i didnt do anything to upset him, i dk what is happening

He probably don't want to talk with me anymore and decided that he don't want me which is fine like it happens you can change your mind.

I'm not sad if he don't wan't me anymore, i'm just feeling stupid to have trusted in him and created so many expectations when for him was just some "good for his ego time"

Just want to say don't fill anyone expectation if you not intend to stay, specially when you know what you are doing

Is just mean

[LittleBears KDB]

Hey how are you? Happy Xmas or holidays which ever suits you. Yeah its hard when things like that happen its not nice a simply message would be the way to go and not just disappearing on you its not nice to have that happen. I hope you don't blame yourself or feel bad about it unfortunately theses things happen and we never know why just try not to dwell on it and don't worry and don't feel stupid over it it happens to all of us at some stage. Happened to me after being with a little for 2.5 years. Anyway I hope santa was nice to you

[LittleBears KDB]

Sorry double posted silly tablet being slow lol Edited December 25, 2016 by Paudie1200

[Artsyprincess]

Hahaha dnt worry, happy holidays for u too

Tks for the reply, i know it happens a lot of this in the comunity and that makes me so frustrate

But what can we do, is how the world function now a days.

It seems people don't have heart nor empathy anymore.

I thought he was different, but by his attitude he clearly wasn't.

[LittleBears KDB]

No problem you're welcome and thanks for the holiday greetings

Yeah it dies from what I have seen and heard about and its very true the world has changed way too much no note loyalty and people really don't careabout anything other than there phones lol. At least it happened sooner and not a lot later trust me that's horrible

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

Hewwo ^.^ i hope ure okaies and hope santa brought you lots of goodies. I know how you feel as it seem to happen more and more often, noone wants to actually say why theyre leaving or try n work things out. They just leave and abadon the person, i think its really messed up the way they do it and im sorry that happened to you. Your better then him anyways and deserve better always here if u need a friend to talk to ^.^

[Artsyprincess]

for sure, could've been worse, at least i discovered It soon.

And i'm so sorry that it happened to you

[LittleBears KDB]

Yeah very true it could have been. Awww thanks I'm here too if you want to talk

[Artsyprincess]

Tk you littlelexikitty, yeah people are just doing what they judge "easier" i guess, they don't try to put themselves in the other person skin and talk to then to get in a point where is good for both, is easier just leave.

But anyway i really apreciate your support and i'm here if you need to talk as well

[Artsyprincess]

Me either paudie1200

[MoDaddy]

Very sorry to hear this happened to you. This is very sad. However, there are lots of great people on this forum, both bigs and littles,  so I'm sure you can make many new friends here that will treat you better! Then you'll be turning a negative into a positive! Yay!  

 

Merry Christmas!

[Artsyprincess]

Yay that's true

Tks for your reply and wish you a merry christmas

[splendabae]

sorry that happened to you, i hate when people do that. it's super rude. all i can say is learn and grow from this, and good luck in the future.   

[Guest uk_caring_daddy]

Very sorry to hear this happened to you.

 

It seems to me that your Daddy is bad at relationships.

Maybe bad at communicating feelings, perhaps bad with dealing with feelings changing, perhaps bad at knowing his own feelings, probably a bit of all three.

 

That will make things hard for him, and whoever he is with. Don't feel bad in the sense of looking inwards, just take some time, note that the sun still rises and remember that you deserve much better than this.

 

Have a great holiday!

 

[chloelayne]

I've actually had this happen to me before. I hate when someone I'm talking to ghosts. I have trust issues and when someone just ups and leaves with no explanation, it's absolutely heartbreaking. But I know there will be someone else out there better for you! Stay Strong and happy Holidays!

[chloelayne]

Also, Don't let it get you down! If he can easily do that to a little, they aren't a true daddy. Make them earn your trust.

Edited December 25, 2016 by chloelayne

[tayiie]

Sadly, this happen a lot, to many, both littles and CG's. I myself have experienced it so I know how you feel. I'm sorry it happened to you, it's really rotten. Even if something bad have happened it only takes a few seconds to let someone know you're fine but will be occupied for a few days. But all you can do is learn from your mistakes. Sadly, because of this kind of things happening we all become more cautious which can lead into us missing that almost perfect match.

 

I just hope you will have a good New Years and hopefully a fantastic 2017!

[Prince_Towelie]

Hey... Just wanted to say that there is a resource for this kind of thing on the Forum already, explaining the ins and outs of what is often called 'Ghosting' or the 'Slow Fade'.

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11758-ghosting-or-slow-fade/

 

This happens a lot, to a lot of people... I wish you good luck.  Hold your head up high.