A little who don't understand her

[Loli32o1]

[Magi]

You know sometimes that could just mean you have a brother to play with and a daddy to love as well.

[BladeRunner]

You want a Daddy.

 

You didn't see this man often and he's acting little now .

 

I suggest you preoccupy your thoughts with other things. I believe you'll meet a man that is a true dominant and can devote in person time to you.

 

Don't worry.

[Bam Bam]

 

I suggest you preoccupy your thoughts with other things. I believe you'll meet a man that is a true dominant and can devote in person time to you.

 

Don't worry.

Are you saying switches can't be a dom?

[Guest]

Hi! 

 

There is nothing wrong with not being able to be a mommy at all! You two could have a Daddy/Little dynamic when he is in "Daddy space", and you could have a playmate or a little brother when he is in little space. 

Now, if it makes you uncomfortable to see him act little, then yes, you two might not work together. 

 

However, I do not agree with Blade Runner, switches can be true dominants and devoted. Being both a little and a big does not make you anyless of a dom or a sub.

 

Hope things go well for you Bye ~ 

[splendabae]

it's not a problem unless you have an issue with him being little or he needs a mommy. other than that, switches are perfectly capable of being good cgs. what bladerunner said is not ok. but you should express to your partner that you do not believe you are capable of being a mommy. but if you feel comfortable being around his little side, then maybe you guys can have play dates and do little stuff together. good luck!

[DarlinStarrz]

My wife and I are both switches, with her being my Big. I was her Big for a long time, and now it's my turn to be little. We both are very capable of being Dom when the need arises, with no ill effects to either of us.

 

That being said, not everyone is like that. If you feel you couldn't be a Mommy, you don't have to be. If that is something he truly needs, then maybe you are right and it wouldn't work out. But, just because he was acting a little small doesn't mean he necessarily needs a Mommy when he acts like that. He could have just been acting playful, getting on your level so you both could enjoy having a playmate. Not every little NEEDS a Big to be happy. Some enjoy playing on their little's level to bring more joy to both of their lives. That's what I have with my Love and it is the best feeling in the world.
 

My suggestion would be to talk to him, ask him if a Mommy is something he needs. If it is, then discuss it further and see if you can come to a compromise. If it isn't, enjoy having a Big that loves to play

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Daddy is playful sometimes. It's possible he's a switch, as he really didn't care much about BDSM initially and I was the one interested, however I've always pegged him as more of a Dom and frankly these days he is far from a sub. He does get playful though, and it's my understanding many Daddies do.

 

Think about a normal relationship between a parent and a child. The parent mostly sets the rules, but they do play sometimes. Our Bigs are that way, too (although DDlg should ALWAYS be between two consenting adults and isn't really a parent/child relationship, aspects of it are modeled from BDSM and the parent/child dynamics).

 

He may not need a Mommy, he may be complete Dom, he may be a switch. He might just need you to be little with him sometimes. Best thing to do is talk about it.