Question

[KittyKatc:]

Would it be wrong or weird to have a non-sexual daddy/caregiver while having a vanilla boyfriend if he's okay with it?

[MoDaddy]

Nope, not weird. As long as both are aware of the situation and both are OK with it, then all is good in my opinion. 

[Guest uk_caring_daddy]

There are very few things in life which are universally right or wrong and I'm really sure this isn't one of them!

 

The only 3 opinions that matter here are yours, your boyfriend's and the Daddy's.

So from my perspective, the situation you describe is perfectly lovely.

 

The only thing to watch out for perhaps is if everyone can remain happy. If one person wants your attention, but your attention is elsewhere, that might get difficult over time and you would need to figure out how to handle such situations. If one person wants to comfort you in a time of need but you seek comfort from the other, that can be difficult to take.

 

Also...a thing to watch out for is that feelings can be hard to manage. So if you have non-sexual caregiver and your feelings for them grow over time (as their feelings could well grow for you), you would need to manage any desires you both have to make it sexual which might be harder than your expected.

 

So in summary, not wrong or weird, but maybe a few things to watch out for.

[Johnny Hammersticks]

For me personally, i would not be able to be in a relationship on either side of that. I wouldnt want to share the intimacy or the attention of my little with another guy. Im too possessive and controlling.

 

But this is just my humble opinion, i know that this is possible and can happen, cos one of my friends was in a situation like that for awhile.

[Antoinette]

Everything between consenting adults is okay as long as it comes with a lot of honesty and communication. 

[splendabae]

basically what most people are saying. as long as all are knowing and consenting adults, it's fine.

[Pastel Boi]

As long as everyone is consenting I see no issues.

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

Nope, not weird at all. Ive had sexual and non sexual partners so its perfectly fine

[DaddysMonkey]

Hello there !

 

You said , "if he is okay with it." 

 

I think that answers the question in itself

 

If you and your boyfriend have discussed it thoroughly , and you both agree to it willingly and happily out of understanding and compromise.... it's not wrong !

 

In fact , it would sound like a healthy relationship between two people who communicate.

 

Hope this helps ! 

Edited December 25, 2016 by Daddysmonkey