issue wif papa

[Lost_Wittle_Kitten]

My papa is just... Very immature and tends to act like a little..... He also tends to get so upset when I'm upset that I feel even worse.... I'm sorry that must not make much sense.... ~looks down~

[Guest ZenDD]

It sounds like you aren't very inspired by your CG and that you seem to be losing respect for him. I'm sorry about that. But I hope you are communicating your feelings to him, and that he is respectfully listening. If this behavior of his is consistent, and the pattern has exhibited itself for an extended period of time, then this is truly a problem for the relationship's sustainability. If this behavior of his is new, then be compassionate, as he may be going through some issues, that you may or may not know about, that he is not handling well. This is a good time to think about your own behavior within the relationship, too. Ask yourself if you've been your best, if you've been a complimentary partner, if you've been a productive and positive participant.

 

If there is something worth saving, and you're both willing to work on it, then do so. If you feel that enough effort has been given without seeing appropriate results, then be strong enough to let this relationship go and move on. Good luck and take care.

[Lost_Wittle_Kitten]

It sounds like you aren't very inspired by your CG and that you seem to be losing respect for him. I'm sorry about that. But I hope you are communicating your feelings to him, and that he is respectfully listening. If this behavior of his is consistent, and the pattern has exhibited itself for an extended period of time, then this is truly a problem for the relationship's sustainability. If this behavior of his is new, then be compassionate, as he may be going through some issues, that you may or may not know about, that he is not handling well. This is a good time to think about your own behavior within the relationship, too. Ask yourself if you've been your best, if you've been a complimentary partner, if you've been a productive and positive participant.

 

If there is something worth saving, and you're both willing to work on it, then do so. If you feel that enough effort has been given without seeing appropriate results, then be strong enough to let this relationship go and move on. Good luck and take care.

Thank you very much for your advice! I have definitely communicated my feelings about the topic and I believe he really is trying his hardest but he has a long way to go. Though I am going to stick with him no matter what. Because I love him and this is just a minor bump in the road! ^~^ Again thank you very much for the advice, I appreciate it and I will keep it in mind!

[splendabae]

just throwing this out there, does he know if he has a little side? it could be that he's unaware of it and he's acting out in response. just a thought!

[Antoinette]

I agree with what lil'bby and Zenn have stated, perhaps get him to take a BDSM test to see if he's possibly a switch? (http://bdsmtest.org/)