Bringing Out Daddy/Mommy

[Guest softheartbruisedknees]

I saw this on tumblr and thought it was a cute idea!

 

http://i.imgur.com/0swoMHL.png

 

How do you bring your Daddy or Mommy out?

Edited December 21, 2016 by softheartbruisedknees

[Antoinette]

With a very thought out, well constructed...

 

Evil...

 

 

Devious...

 

 

Mind-boggling plan...

 

 

Are you ready?

 

 

"DAAAAAAADDDDDDDDDDYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!"

 

 

Works every time.

[Guest ZenDD]

Seems manipulative. Personally, I don't find it very cute. I think asking your CG for attention works just fine; without the pretense.

[Guest softheartbruisedknees]

I think if it's not done too seriously and in a playful way it's not manipulative. It's helpful for my Daddy because he's a new daddy and he's not sure how to respond when I simply ask for attention. We both like being playful with each other like that

 

But I do think it would be manipulative if I was all out sobbing and made him feel bad. There's a line. 

Edited December 23, 2016 by softheartbruisedknees

[Guest softheartbruisedknees]

Here are some other good ideas 

 

http://i.imgur.com/gy7xTRH.png

 

http://i.imgur.com/WNdgmTd.png

 

http://i.imgur.com/uiSMEkK.png

 

source 

[DaddysMonkey]

Hello there !

 

I am not sure if manipulative is the word I would use. I know I need help getting into my space if I had something stressful happen. So this question makes me wonder if Daddys/Mommys might need help as well if they are stressed as well or they are tired.

 

If I notice my Daddy is tired , or he seems like he is distracted I like to do kind things for him to show I appreciate all of the things he does as a Daddy. I don't think doing naughty things is they way to go. Being playful and being naughty naturally as a little is different than actually needing to ask for more attention. I think these things should be kept separate so no resentment is created. 

 

Maybe you could pamper him and let him relax and unwind , cook dinner , bring him a beer and let him play some video games alone for a while , color him a nice picture while he does something he wants to by himself , roll him a doobie if your Daddy smokes. We need to remember how much our caregivers do for us , sometimes they don't need "bringing out" of their caregiver side , instead maybe just some time to unwind and focus his attention on one thing for himself. Maybe try that the next time you feel like a Daddy needs "bringing out".

 

If all else fails you certainly did something nice for him , and he will love and appreciate that.

 

Hope this helps !

Edited December 29, 2016 by Daddysmonkey

[MonsieurSerge]

My kid sister did something with her Daddy that would always work: she would whimper "Daddy, I'm cold!".  She usually wound up on his lap under a blankie.

[Guest buddhagirl]

I just tell Daddy that I need him, and he's there with his arms around me and a kiss.