Dealing with a breakup as a little?

[switchlittleloves]

I don't really have much to say on this. I feel like the title says enough. I'm switch and recently broke up with my mommy/lg/etc. and I don't really know how to help myself heal from it.. especially as a little. I guess what I'm asking for is some ways that other people have dealt with their breakups in the past? Maybe this could spark a discussion that helps a lot of people. You never know, right?

[Little_wolf114]

If you have a best friend that knows about you being into ddlg talk to them. I know it doesn't sound like a lot but believe me it helps. They might be able to help you and they just might support you. I hope that this helps

[Guest littlevulcangirl]

My last breakup was especially painful and I didn't look after myself properly afterwards. And I wanted to get over her quickly. But it was 6 months ago and it's still really painful sometimes. I guess it just takes time, and to be kind to yourself.

 

I hope it gets easier for you soon

[switchlittleloves]

Both of those answers are amazing. Thank you so much, seriously. It means a lot. I feel like I have a tiny family c:

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

[Guest Moonpie]

Breakups suck. I would advise that you surround yourself with family and friends, do things you love doing.  Have fun and always allow yourself to heal. I personally would need to cry it all out. Stay strong.

[Guest littlevulcangirl]

Both of those answers are amazing. Thank you so much, seriously. It means a lot. I feel like I have a tiny family c:

<3 - I was gonna Like your post but I've hit a limit.

[switchlittleloves]

Once again, thank you guys. I guess I should just try to be more open and focus on not shutting down the way I usually do during emotionally trying times. Especially since it's Christmas and I'm gonna get to see a lot of my family in a few days! I can already tell now that that's going to help a lot. Another thing that's always helped me is just having a normal conversation with a friend or family member. While something is going on I usually don't tell anybody and just allow them to help me without even knowing they're doing it.