Are there many mommies out there?

[Guest littlevulcangirl]

I am really new to my Littleness and I've been single some six months now. I think that last relationship helped me realise what kinda relationship I'm looking for, and tho I loved her very much, I had emotional needs she couldn't meet.

 

But since I've been browsing various sites and stuff, it seems like there's a million Daddies out there, but I don't seem to see many Mommies.

 

Are they rare? Or just hiding? I'm a bit worried I'm not gonna find someone who could fulfil that role for me, and I'm just not into men at all.

[Antoinette]

Hey there!

 

I would definitely say that there are a lot more active daddies in the community than mommies, unfortunately. I know there are quite a few switches within the community though so perhaps looking for people that identify as both little and mommy would be a good idea. You will find someone eventually, the best things come to those who wait. It's all about being patient, don't worry about not finding someone straight away.

[Guest littlevulcangirl]

Hey. Thanks. I am definitely not actively looking – I'm done with doing that for the time being, and it's not me, it's way too uncomfortable lol. I mean I might even know one or two because I definitely move in the right circles. But I dunno. I have decided to keep this side of myself pretty quiet from my friendship group but even tho they're mostly gay/trans/queer there's not much acceptance.

 

So it just makes me worry that I won't meet someone who might fill that role.