Balancing rewards and punishments

[LittleOne]

My daddy usually only punishes me and lately I told him that he needed to focus on rewards too. I was wondering what way we could balance the them so I can get a mix of the two. 

 

XOXO,

Little One

[Guest SaladHater]

I think the best thing to do is just wait now and see how things play out. You already talked to him

About it so hopefully that will get you more rewards

[Guest Moonpie]

Maybe you could introduce the idea of a reward chart? If certain things are completed, like for example your chores then you will get a reward.

 

Hope that helps.

Edited December 19, 2016 by Kitty xx

[tayiie]

I think its great that youve talked w your daddy about it :3 might take him some time to think it through as well so dont rush it.

Now I dont know that many ways of giving rewards, since I usually get to hear Im being good, but what Ive learned through reading some online is that theres different ways of giving rewards, not sure on what type of relationship you have but...

 

a reward chart might be a great start, list the things you and your daddy wants you to do, for each thing you do right, you get a sticker/star/smiley, if you gather enough daddy will give you something special which could be anything. This way you will try your best in always being good and he has to reward you for it. Rewards can be anything, depending on what you want.

 

and then theres a different way (at least this one works really well on me), only rewarding good behaviour and not doing anything about the bad ones (unless its something really bad). Easily explained, If you do something bad then daddy shows you whats right and then rewards you for doing that right thing.

 

Those are the two types I know of, prolly is hella lot more out there.

[LittleOne]

Thank you guys!

[Antoinette]

I think OurHome is a really great thing for punishments because it helps you follow rules while getting points that lead up to rewards, it helps me feel more acknowledged for being good anyway.

 

EDIT: 

 

This is so unnecessary but I just need to add that I think I have the pink version of the stuffy in your picture.

 

 

Her name is Pencey and I love her lmao sorry if they're different stuffies but yea cx

Edited December 19, 2016 by xAntoinette