He said yes!

[LazyDaizee]

I'm so excited right now, I just had to tell someone! and I can't just go posting it on facebook (many of my friends/family would not understand and would only criticize) so I thought what better way to express my excitement than to post here where I know ppl will be understanding 

 

I just recently discovered this whole DD/lg world and wanted to explore it. My hubby and I have been married for 10 years (together for over 12) and I wasn't sure how to bring it up to him. I'm still really really new to all of this but the more I looked and read about it, the more I realized that certain things really seemed to click. I'm not sure how it will fit into our lives exactly, being that we have 2 children (11 and 6). But I'm determined not to let that get me down, or stop me from exploring this and seeing if it's something that we can make work.

 

Also our current living situation (live with his mom and dad) is not the best or most private right now in order to fully embrace this, but that's for another time, and hopefully will be remedied before too much longer.

 

After looking up all kinds of info on the topic, I decided it was time to breech the subject with my hubby. I know that I can tell him anything. We dont keep anything from each other, so I knew that this was something I had to tell him or it would eat at me until I did or until he finally got me to talk. Unfortunately I was nervous and wasnt sure if he'd be open to this type of thing. Though, in retrospect, I'm not sure what I was worried about. He's always been favorable to being dominant in the bedroom, and he has a somewhat dominant yet nurturing personality.

 

So I finally decided today was the day. I was nervous and anxious about what he'd say and so I typed him an email. I know it's probably not the best way to approach the subject but I've always found that when I'm uncomfortable with something I want to talk about, it's always easier to write/type it out and give/send it. I sent it to him before I went to work, and told him he needed to check his email. About 5 minutes before clocking in I got a text from him saying "Yes, babygirl". (I had titled the email subject "i have a serious question for you..." and at the end, after explaining myself and going through much more trouble than I probably should have to explain it all to him, my question was "So...do you want to be my daddy?") OMG I was so excited I couldn't wait to get home!

 

Although I dont think he realizes that I want this as something more than just a sexual role-play type thing. I know we have a lot more to work out but the worst is over with.

[Tasha-Pasha]

HOOOOOORAAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Congratulations!!

 

I am super happy for you 

 

   

[LittleOne]

YAY!! I'm sooo happy for you!! I remember when my daddy said yes. He was vanilla and I was so nervous. He's now the best daddy in the whole world and I couldn't be happier with my relationship. 

[Michael]

Congratulations!

[Guest SoloFairy]

That's sooooo exciting! Congrats!!!!

[splendabae]

omg that's so great! i'm so glad you got that conversation started, i know it can be nerve wracking. good luck with moving forward in the future <3

[MoDaddy]

That's Awesome! Congrats!!!

[Guest ♥ Lee ♥]

I wish I could read a happy story like this every day Congratulations! 

[Guest Moonpie]

I'm sooo happy for you!! Congratulations!!!  

[fluffiepinkiecutie]

Awwwww this is so cuteeee!

Congratulations! I hope he will be the best daddy in the world for you ^^

[LazyDaizee]

Thanks everyone! its such a great feeling to have so many positive replies.It brings smiles to my face with each one I read. I know that we still have a lot of finer details to go though, but overall he really is the best Daddy I could ask for.

[Guest Wishing4aDaddy]

That's great news, I just joined and your post is the first I read and it gives me hope!

[Guest Kali]

You have no idea what a lucky girl you are... or perhaps you do based on the responses to your news. Sooo envious! Congratulations on a great day!

[LittleLola]

Such a happy story! Belated congratulations! I am planning to have this talk with my partner. He is aware of my interest, but still... I am a bit scared... Can you give me some advice on how to bring this up? Thanks!

[LazyDaizee]

Such a happy story! Belated congratulations! I am planning to have this talk with my partner. He is aware of my interest, but still... I am a bit scared... Can you give me some advice on how to bring this up? Thanks!

Thank you so much! It was not all that easy for me in the beginning. I worried to myself over and over debating how and when to bring it up. I knew I had to know more about it first and researched it and tried to find what parts appealed to me. It helps ALOT that we have an open relationship, meaning we keep nothing from each other, and I know that I can tell him anything. I can't really say when the right time is, you'll just kinda....know. The best advice I can give is just be open about it. Maybe bring it up as a theoretical sort of thing and see how he takes it. Since he knows about your interest in the lifestyle, if he has a positive outlook on it, its a good possibility that he will accept everything and all will be peachy. It is still possible that he won't be interested, but hopefully won't change how he sees you. Either way, I wish you the best of luck!! and remember to be true to yourself, otherwise you'll never TRULY be happy. 

 

 

 

You have no idea what a lucky girl you are... or perhaps you do based on the responses to your news. Sooo envious! Congratulations on a great day!

Thank you and, Yes I am aware how lucky I am to have gotten such a positive outcome. I know it could have had a much sadder response, and I am thankful everyday that it turned out the way I wanted it to. I have read several threads and posts from littles who either don't have a daddy or whose SO's are not so understanding and willing to participate in the lifestyle.

 

 

We are still trying to get a feel for things, but overall, so far it's been nothing short of wonderful. Right now it's hard to really get into little space , with either the kids around or as I mentioned in my original post that we currently live with his parents (and with such tight quarters, all 4 of us- hubby, me and both kids- are all sleeping in same room), so that makes it difficult to try too much. I'm hoping that once we get into our own place things will run more smoothly and we will have more time for us, but for now I'm happy that we at least get to have a little bit of time as daddy and babygurl.

[Guest Volkmane1985]

Well done

[ChibiPuppy]

Amazingly brave of you and I am so happy for you! Good luck with making it work. My advice: don't rush it, take your time and let it develop.

Congratulations! ♥