Really upset...being abadonded by a daddy

[MilkyUsagi]

I passed through this stuff too.. I am so Sorry for that but be strong and you will fine and you will find a new and better daddy as I did!

[LittleGirlEmilia]

I can't relate because all my relationships have been in real life, but it must really suck... I hope you're better now though!

 

That guy who ghosted the little that missed him so much, that's like the worst and I can't believe I read that from someone who calls them self a caregiver. Disgusting.

[uk shy guy]

Once again people are being triggered and not reading the posts properly.

 

I never said I was a CG/DD just that we had been cultivating a relationship, I personally would not want to be with a LG/LB as a CG/DD after just a couple of weeks or months without learning about and getting to know the other person.

 

If you read the posts you would also have read that they never said they had missed me just that they had been affected by an absence which they had been told about beforehand.

 

The point remains the same though, realising it is not your fault LittleLexiKitty is the point, it does not change who you are.

[Lilla]

I personally don't think you need to be in a committed relationship to be important to somebody. If like you said, you were talking to this person everyday and cultivating this relationship, you must have been close and maybe in her eyes you were an important part in her life. I also think she could have been confused about the length of time you were leaving for. I don't know how everything went down, but if you didn't specify the amount of time you were going to be away for she might have just assumed you would be back in a few hours.  If she thought that and you came back two weeks later, she would be justifiably angry. In any case I don't see a problem with her expressing how your absence affected her, she obviously missed you and I think the whole thing could have been solved if you were able to communicate better. What I find really appalling though is your attempt to justify ghosting someone. If you were unhappy with how she reacted, you could have expressed this and your desire to stop cultivating this relationship, to her, instead of just disappearing and cutting off all contact. I think it was a really immature way to handle the situation.