Little space (LDR)

[Brattyprincess]

I find it very difficult to express myself because my daddy and I are LDR. So whenever I just want him to simply watch me color a picture for him, those are the little things I'm missing. I don't have someone to hand me my stuffie when I'm sad. Having a ddlg relationship from a very long distance is difficult in itself. Any advice on how to fill that void through just a text? Or just through a video chat?

[Guest]

My daddy and I use an app to call one another and talk. It makes me super happy to hear him. He also will make little videos for me that are him being silly or telling me he loves me and I watch those when I down.we talk on kik a lot too and I send him pictures of what I am doing and tell him about it

[Guest Youandme]

Ways to Stay Connected:

 

Skype

Text

Email

Send letters

Send postcards

Send pictures

Send small gifts

Have flowers or candy delivered

Visit each other

Go on vacation together

 

Ways to Maintain the Dynamic:

 

Set rules

Set boundaries

Set punishments

Give her a daily goal chart

Have her ask permission

Be there for her with love

Demand respect from her

Keep her accountable

Have access to her daily calendar

 

Dreams and Goals:

 

When can you schedule a visit?

When can you go on vacation together?

When can you move closer to each other?

When can you move in together?

What do you want 1 month from now?

What do you want 6 months from now?

 

Fun Thing’s to Do “Together”:

 

Play an online game together

Play 20 questions

Talk about your past

Talk about your fears

Join a forum together

Write a blog together.

 

Don't let distance make the relationship distant...... A few decisions together and all will be great. I wish you both a beautiful relationship together. Be blessed

[Brattyprincess]

Thank you so much. All ideas help. And every day I do my best to make sure that the long distance part is the smallest issue in our relationship right now. Edited December 18, 2016 by ImHisPrincess

[Guest Youandme]

When two hearts beat for each other, when two bodies crave for each other, when two souls wish to become one distance is just nothing because both know the moment both are together all this distance will be gone and the wait over making you both forget all these small issues. All the best and keep smiling growing stronger each day.

[Guest SoloFairy]

Daddy and I have been in a LDR for a little over a year. It can be difficult but it can also be very rewarding and a fantastic way to learn about yourself.

We use a lot of apps to bridge the gap. We function a lot like a local D/s relationship would.  I have rules that I am expected to follow but the difference is that I have to tattle on myself when I don't follow them. That was really really hard at first and I often put it off for a day or two then I'd get in even bigger trouble. Now I tell him right away often times without thinking about it. Communication is the foundation of any relationship but especially in a LDR. 

 

Here are the apps we use I am copying and pasting from another thread in case you missed it: 

 

Couple-texting, pictures, voice messages, drawing pictures 

 

FB messenger-video chatting

 

Skype-  we just figured out you can set it up to automatically answer without ringing so I have that set up on my laptop so Daddy can now peek in on me while I'm sleeping. It's such a great feeling to wake up and see Daddy right there. To call out his name and him be able to answer. 

 

Glide- To send longer video messages. I send a video message to Daddy every morning and usually before bed and any other time I'm bored. It tells you when they are watching it and when they are recording a video so that's fun. 

 

Family360- A GPS app so we know where the other is. It alerts us when the other leaves or comes home. Is at work or leaves work, and other various places. It really helps us feel more connected to be able to pull the app up at any time and see where they are or where they have been. It also helps cure some anxiety "Why hasn't Daddy messaged me?? Oh he's still at work" lol 

 

www.rabb.it This is only an app on Apple so we use it on our computers. It lets you video chat while watching the same movie. We watched Sharknado and it was almost like he was right there with me!

 

Google drive- We use this for our journals. We both have our own folders and we write about anything and everything usually everyday.  We use it go get everything out of our head and to learn more about each other. It's great after a long day of missed texts or calls to read what he's been up to that day. 

 

Fitbit- we use that App to keep each other healthy and challenge each other. 

 

Wunderlist- Probably Daddy's favorite     it's an app where Daddy can add tasks for me to do through out the day. It alerts me when he adds something and it alerts him when I check it off. 

 

Tumblr- We use that as a way to share our interests to each other. Mine is dedicated to him and his to me and we often share mushy gushy stuff lol

 

We are looking at getting the long distance lamps. The idea behind it is when one person touches their lamp the other persons lamp lights up.  

 

Youtube- We have a shared account and have playlists and Daddy even posts video's of himself there sometimes!

[Alice18]

Daddy and I have been in a LDR for a little over a year. It can be difficult but it can also be very rewarding and a fantastic way to learn about yourself.

We use a lot of apps to bridge the gap. We function a lot like a local D/s relationship would. I have rules that I am expected to follow but the difference is that I have to tattle on myself when I don't follow them. That was really really hard at first and I often put it off for a day or two then I'd get in even bigger trouble. Now I tell him right away often times without thinking about it. Communication is the foundation of any relationship but especially in a LDR.

 

Here are the apps we use I am copying and pasting from another thread in case you missed it:

Couple-texting, pictures, voice messages, drawing pictures

FB messenger-video chatting

Skype- we just figured out you can set it up to automatically answer without ringing so I have that set up on my laptop so Daddy can now peek in on me while I'm sleeping. It's such a great feeling to wake up and see Daddy right there. To call out his name and him be able to answer.

Glide- To send longer video messages. I send a video message to Daddy every morning and usually before bed and any other time I'm bored. It tells you when they are watching it and when they are recording a video so that's fun.

Family360- A GPS app so we know where the other is. It alerts us when the other leaves or comes home. Is at work or leaves work, and other various places. It really helps us feel more connected to be able to pull the app up at any time and see where they are or where they have been. It also helps cure some anxiety "Why hasn't Daddy messaged me?? Oh he's still at work" lol

www.rabb.it This is only an app on Apple so we use it on our computers. It lets you video chat while watching the same movie. We watched Sharknado and it was almost like he was right there with me!

Google drive- We use this for our journals. We both have our own folders and we write about anything and everything usually everyday. We use it go get everything out of our head and to learn more about each other. It's great after a long day of missed texts or calls to read what he's been up to that day.

Fitbit- we use that App to keep each other healthy and challenge each other.

Wunderlist- Probably Daddy's favorite it's an app where Daddy can add tasks for me to do through out the day. It alerts me when he adds something and it alerts him when I check it off.

Tumblr- We use that as a way to share our interests to each other. Mine is dedicated to him and his to me and we often share mushy gushy stuff lol

We are looking at getting the long distance lamps. The idea behind it is when one person touches their lamp the other persons lamp lights up.

Youtube- We have a shared account and have playlists and Daddy even posts video's of himself there sometimes!

Wow!! These apps are so interesting!

My Daddy and I are LDR too. We mostly just use viber and skype. I'll try suggesting these to him coz i also wanna be connected with him more. ^^~ thank you for sharing!