Brat Advice

[sweetdarling]

[Guest SoloFairy]

Hi there! Fellow brat here 

 

I am a bit of a brat a lot of the time and generally speaking Daddy doesn't mind it either.  I completely understand the bratty mode you're talking about and it IS so hard to get out of that frame of mind. The biggest thing that helps me knock the behavior off is my Daddy. He is pretty tolerant of my brattiness but there is a limit and a line that I can't cross. If I do (or come close) he has learned how to shut it down with a look, his words, and occasionally (really sucky) punishments.  It's taken a while for us to fine tune expectations and understandings so if you haven't been at it long give it some time. 

 

Another thing that helps both of us is communication. There are times I honestly tell him I feel a brat attack coming on. In fact just a couple days ago I told Daddy that I felt like this weekend was going to be a bratty weekend and I woke up Saturday to a punishment for not following directions Friday night. 

 

Expressing the comings of a brat attack helps Daddy be more vigilant and I have noticed it makes a big difference. 

 

If you feel like you need some extra help bring it up to your Daddy. Ask him for a little less leeway in your behavior. 

[sweetdarling]

Hi there! Fellow brat here 

 

I am a bit of a brat a lot of the time and generally speaking Daddy doesn't mind it either.  I completely understand the bratty mode you're talking about and it IS so hard to get out of that frame of mind. The biggest thing that helps me knock the behavior off is my Daddy. He is pretty tolerant of my brattiness but there is a limit and a line that I can't cross. If I do (or come close) he has learned how to shut it down with a look, his words, and occasionally (really sucky) punishments.  It's taken a while for us to fine tune expectations and understandings so if you haven't been at it long give it some time. 

 

Another thing that helps both of us is communication. There are times I honestly tell him I feel a brat attack coming on. In fact just a couple days ago I told Daddy that I felt like this weekend was going to be a bratty weekend and I woke up Saturday to a punishment for not following directions Friday night. 

 

Expressing the comings of a brat attack helps Daddy be more vigilant and I have noticed it makes a big difference. 

 

If you feel like you need some extra help bring it up to your Daddy. Ask him for a little less leeway in your behavior.

 

Thank you so much, that definitely helps. I don't know why it's so hard to be obedient, but that bratty frame of mind is very powerful lol. Thank you for the help