TinyTwaddle Posted December 16, 2016 Report Posted December 16, 2016 Sometimes I really, really want to be in Little space but it's "not the right time" or it just "feels wrong"... does that happen to anyone else? It hurts to fight it but at the same time something is telling me that I can't do it and I can't just let go. It's scary and I find myself crying with my stuffie.... Any advice?
MusicChicaMia Posted December 16, 2016 Report Posted December 16, 2016 I get that at work a lot whenever there's a song that usually gets me into my little space. So what I usually do is just be subtle about it. Like I work in the Drive Thru usually and I'll see a puppy, you're allowed to do a loud "aww" at them, just no grabby hands. When you drop something on the ground, you can just stare at it and frown while doing some grabby hand motion. If you're eating something, you can kind of do that cute eating thing where you take little bites of stuff. I guess just kind of accept that you're weird and that it's okay to be weird. In my opinion being normal is VASTLY overrated so it's okay to act a little silly here and there. 2
IchigoHime Posted December 17, 2016 Report Posted December 17, 2016 I agree with MusicChicaMia. You can always be in little space, and just be subtle about it if you feel anything more would be inappropriate. I'm almost always in little space, even though the people I live with think being a little is weird, it's just part of who I am and they've accepted certain things as just me "being my normal weird self" 2
splendabae Posted December 17, 2016 Report Posted December 17, 2016 i'm sorry that you're going through that! i know it's hard trying to be an adult when all u wanna do is cuddle with your stuffies. personally i like doing small little stuff that seem "normal", like eating lollipops or humming or skipping while i walk dogs. also no one thinks twice when i talk little to dogs, they just think i'm doing a baby voice for them lol. as long as you get what your supposed to do done, then it's ok if you go into littlespace a bit. hope that helps <3
Little_Rose_ Posted December 18, 2016 Report Posted December 18, 2016 For a while I wasn't comfortable with the fact that I was a little. All of my friends are very anti ddlg so I repressed it. I completely understand of the pain of fighting your little space. I'm comfortable with myself now and similar to Daddy's Kitten Princess I find myself in a very minor version of my little space almost all the time. When I'm in ls my friends think I'm weird and funny, and when I'm not I'm very mature and mentally strong to the point where most of my friends come to me for support. Just embrace your ls in a way that still lets you 'adult' if needed. it may not be an easy balance to find but i believe in you!! ~R
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