New little here! Looking for advice.

[Starchild21]

Heya everyone!

So my names Jess and I'm a little, so lately I've not been feeling so little life has been super duper busy and I've just not been feeling it, any advice would be awesome!

Also I'm looking for friends so like yeah let's be friends! I love cats and colouring and sleeping!

[Ruetta]

Hi Jess i'm Tcha and i'd love if we could be friend >...< and if you dont have time to enjoy your little soul times you could just wear cute dresses and whilst watching some ghibli's movie you could just hug your stuffie too! I could feel so little in instant just by that :3 hope this helps ^^ Edited December 15, 2016 by Tcha

[Guest Sephi]

Hey, Jess! With taking finals and then moving last week, I was having the same trouble with settling into little space. I dealt with it by not pushing myself, and allowing myself to just sit and feel exhausted and not label my Self with little or big. Just Sephi. I've tried to get lots of rest and my daddy has been super sweet to take care of me as I am, with no attachment to my "age". After a couple of days of rest and acceptance, I was able to find my little space again! Snuzzling with my blanket, listening to my favorite music, and baking cookies also helped, I think! Take care of yourself, Jess!

[LittleMistressJessiya]

i was in the same boat... then i took my fiance (who is also a little) to a christmas event, where i wore one of my favourite dressies ^__^ and i felt... comfortable. i felt like i belonged in it. 
it was totally un intentional... i just decided to wear that dress to look cute, and my little came out.

 

my point is to basically reconvince yourself with some type of "hey i am a little" or something that sparks a memory.

 

as sick as some may think it sounds, and if you have the means... wear kids underwear if they are in your size. that always helps <3

[Starchild21]

Yay new friends :3

 

Thanks guys! It may not seem like it but your advice has helped a little bit! I love studio ghibli sooooooo much! I have little mermaid panties that will always bring out a little in me hehe

[switchlittleloves]

Hiii! One thing that always helps me is to cuddle my stuffies and watch Disney or other cartoons. Even if you aren't feeling little a few minutes of time with stuffies ALWAYS is amazing! And one thing is to just think of everything you love about being a little. Whether it's the way your mommy or daddy holds you, your favorite things to draw, or wearing your favorite little clothes like you said, there's a million ways to awaken your inner little when you feel detached from it a bit. Feel free to message and friend me if you would like. I'm always open to new buddies! ^~^