Punishment ideas/suggestions?

[.Kawaki]

Punishment should only be given if a sub deliberately starts or causes trouble or breaks rules that were put in place for her safety. Punishment should be given at the time of the infraction because it can have lasting affects on the sub’s mental and emotional well being. If you punish a sub for every slight infraction, it can start to make that sub feel worthless, instead of having the opposite effect of making them perform better.

For the ‘to punish or not to punish’ question, that is entirely up to the Dominant. If you know your sub has difficulties when performing certain tasks for you, but she does perform them to the best of her ability, I would say that you should be understanding and encourage her to keep trying her best. If you punish her for not being able to perform perfectly on the first or even third try, but you see that she has improved, even slightly, then punishing her for not being perfect will just add to the aggravation and disappointment she already feels inside herself.

 

Thank you

J

 

 

Beautiful..

[Little Illy]

Hmmmm, am I different? The naughty behaviour is a request for punishment. You have to find the punishment your little likes most. Find the correct fetish and she will never think of leaving you. Of cause this won't stop her from doing naughty things again. But you have the happiest little of the world in exchange. If you keep on doing stuff that she hates, then you are slowly losing her. Little by little and with a definite result.

 

Not everyone wants bad behavior to be responded with funishments (punishments that create pleasure). If you are in a DDlg or D/s or BDSM relationship, nine times out of ten there will be rules that the sub/little/etc have to follow. A lot of littles (and bigs) like the fact of a punishment being simply that, a punishment. Its not about the fact she hates writing lines or hates having her favorite toy/activity taken away, its the fact that Daddy is in control. And THAT she loves. The punishment is an extension of his control. And by giving littles who love a strict hand (like myself), we cherish the moments that Daddy is in charge in an obvious way, like punishments. Even if we hate the stupid punishment itself.

 

 

I guess many littles here haven't got enough experience to understand the importance of sustainable actions.

 

I think this a bit of an unfair statement to make. Experience/inexperience doesn't play a factor simply because a person's preference is different. I've always known I need a Daddy who is firm with me. Who will give me punishments I hate, who will help me grow into the best little, and the best Me, that I could possibly become. This involves being punished when I ignore bedtime or forget to work on my projects etc. The punishment is dealt out to help me stay on track, and Daddy does this because he loves me. And I love his actions because it is what I want. 

 

If all punishments were actually funishments, those actions would not be sustainable for me. 

 

We must always remember, just because our actions and needs are different, that doesn't make the actions or needs of someone else's wrong, or unsustainable. 

[soft.n.smol.babygirl]

I don't even have a daddy but ktowns punishment night is now on my bucket list! Add a ball gag here, some bondage there with a sprinkle of nipple clamps and a hint of orgasm denial....yum yum bon appetit!