Punishment ideas/suggestions?

[Daddy Alex]

As all DDs know some littles are more bratty then others. Ive had a few where I quite simply ran out of punishments within her comfort zone, so I write this now looking for something unorthodox but not torn from the red room of pain. Feedback is greatly appreciated, thanks again!

[LittleOne]

teasing, writing essays or lines that have to do with the rule they broke, spanking (hehe duh), corner time (kneeling on grains of rice makes corner time less fun then it already was), washing their mouth out with soap, lecturing as a warning is also good 

These are some of the things my daddy uses that work on me, I hope it helps!

[Antoinette]

In order for punishments to be effective they have to contain an element of unhappiness for the person receiving. For example:

 

Whenever I've been extra bratty my daddy will take away my phone/laptop/Xbox for a certain amount of time - this makes me think twice about doing something bad or acting out. So in order for a punishment to be truly effective it has to cater to what you know your little will dislike. 

 

A few of mine are: 

 

-A cold shower

-No phone/laptop/Xbox

-Sexual humiliation. 

-Having to clean the WHOLE house

-No sexual relief (denial of climax/no masturbation) 

 

So yea. The best thing you could do is personalize them to fit what will work best for your little.

[Guest Cuppycakelol]

I wouldn't do the soap it can make her sick... It depends on the person I guess

[Daddy 2021]

I like to have my sub participate in discipline decisions. I'll ask what she thinks an appropriate punishment is, but if it doesn't meet what I think is sufficient, I'll double it. It makes them think about it and adds a sense of dread.

 

Other ideas: watching a movie or show, but making my little turn around so they can't see the screen. Taking away furniture permission. Making my little ask for permission for the smallest of tasks(eg getting a glass of water or going to the bathroom). Grounding, and if you're open with it make your little call her friends and tell them she's grounded and can't go out.

[ktownDaddy]

Punishments.....

 

Hold in while I put on my sadist hat....lol.

 

Do you know the worst thing about punishments - the anticipation and fear of what is about to come. It should be laid out like a Hitchcock movie.

 

I will give you and example-this is was something I tried, it maybe a little jumpy as I try to remember the steps but here goes.

 

Give her an ultimatum - "one more (whatever) and you are going to get it. The brat brain goes that's a challenge and the little girl brain will be drawn in by the curiosity " get what". She's doomed.

 

Now when she crosses the line - you do the build up. " You know what - I have had it with you...had it , had it , had it !"

 

Pause

 

" I swore I would never do this but you have left me know choice - you are a brat incorrigible and just won't listen. Things need to change and tonight they will"

 

Pause again and let those sentences run through her head.

 

Now you start the game - you make it creative and tricky so she has no idea what's going on. Try something like this and make it in the form of instructions.

 

 

1) Go put your favorite movie in the VCR.

2) Go to the kitchen and get me a chair (something she can lay over)

3) Go to the bed room and get my leather belt.

4) Go back to the bed room and bring me a tie.

5) Go back and get another tie.

6) Go back and get another tie.

7) Now tie her wrists behind her back, her ankles together and her elbows together.

8) practice hitting the couch or surface close to her with the belt.

9 Tell her to pick a number between 1+20 and tell her you are going to do the same.

10) Now tell the story, Tonight we are going to going to watch (Name the title of the video - Princess and whatever) I have added my number to your number and when they say the word Princess and it totals the our numbers..... I am going to bring the belt so hard down on your ass you are going to wet yourself.

 

Then play the movie - oh yes she will be watching intently and counting. Also get her to count out loud.

 

If you want to eventually spank her, this is up to you - she doesn't now that and play it up.

 

Make sure you get up and show her the belt, pause the movie, make a sandwich. Let the night play out. You can even say we are getting close and hit the couch again to practice.

 

The anticipation is frightening and if you play it out you can have her so worked up with out even touching her.

 

It's mental torture and if played out right can be very convincing. You can have her talk her way out of it and promise not to break the rules.

 

There are many options but don't cave and be believable.

 

That my two bits on brats.

 

Let me know your thoughts.

 

D.

Edited December 14, 2016 by ktownDaddy

[Guest SoloFairy]

ktownDaddy that seems like that would encourage rather than discourage bad behavior....

[ktownDaddy]

Fussy Nugget, this is because you are a little older and wiser and may take a little more persuading. You also may have a bit of a masochistic streak in you

 

I was trying to come up with a solution that did not use persuasive force but verbal persuading - I think you may be a candidate for the later.

 

D.

[Tasha-Pasha]

Oh my ktownDaddy - I agree with FussyNugget!

 

I think you just described my perfect evening!

 

   

[ktownDaddy]

I think Tasha and Nugget are two peas from the same pod. I think you two could be quite the handful - even for an experienced Daddy.

 

That said, it's the challenges that make life worth while.

 

Wouldn't you agree!

 

D

[Guest Waiting4us]

Punishment should only be given if a sub deliberately starts or causes trouble or breaks rules that were put in place for her safety. Punishment should be given at the time of the infraction because it can have lasting affects on the sub’s mental and emotional well being. If you punish a sub for every slight infraction, it can start to make that sub feel worthless, instead of having the opposite effect of making them perform better.

For the ‘to punish or not to punish’ question, that is entirely up to the Dominant. If you know your sub has difficulties when performing certain tasks for you, but she does perform them to the best of her ability, I would say that you should be understanding and encourage her to keep trying her best. If you punish her for not being able to perform perfectly on the first or even third try, but you see that she has improved, even slightly, then punishing her for not being perfect will just add to the aggravation and disappointment she already feels inside herself.

 

Thank you

J

[DDLG-King]

My personal favorite punishment is one that was already mentioned. My little tends to masturbate daily as a stress reliever, so when she's been naughty, I tell her she isn't allowed to touch herself at all for -insert- number of days. Then, when I see her, I tease her with dirty talk or touches to the general area. Usually it has her begging for me to revoke her punishment, but of course I never do.

[littleryry]

For my little boy I restrict his toys and lines are a perpetual favorite. He'll lose a favorite stuffie for a while and I'll put it somewhere he can't reach but can see it so it's a perpetual reminder of what he did. Corner time and ignoring also work well. Occasionally I'll use orgasm denial and spanking. 

 

My little girl was difficult. She has a whole host of issues and is very difficult, but also sensitive. Ry's punishments are more in the gentle range. Orgasm denial and loss of play time are the most effective. I'll take away stuffies, or restrict how much she can whine. A lecture works wonders for her, her mind does the rest.

[Guest DaddysForeverPrincess]

[LittleGirlEmilia]

I showed daddy this thread... immediate regret omg haha. What have I done xD hehehe

[EbonyKittenPrincess]

Punishments.....

 

Hold in while I put on my sadist hat....lol.

 

Do you know the worst thing about punishments - the anticipation and fear of what is about to come. It should be laid out like a Hitchcock movie.

 

I will give you and example-this is was something I tried, it maybe a little jumpy as I try to remember the steps but here goes.

 

Give her an ultimatum - "one more (whatever) and you are going to get it. The brat brain goes that's a challenge and the little girl brain will be drawn in by the curiosity " get what". She's doomed.

 

Now when she crosses the line - you do the build up. " You know what - I have had it with you...had it , had it , had it !"

 

Pause

 

" I swore I would never do this but you have left me know choice - you are a brat incorrigible and just won't listen. Things need to change and tonight they will"

 

Pause again and let those sentences run through her head.

 

Now you start the game - you make it creative and tricky so she has no idea what's going on. Try something like this and make it in the form of instructions.

 

 

1) Go put your favorite movie in the VCR.

2) Go to the kitchen and get me a chair (something she can lay over)

3) Go to the bed room and get my leather belt.

4) Go back to the bed room and bring me a tie.

5) Go back and get another tie.

6) Go back and get another tie.

7) Now tie her wrists behind her back, her ankles together and her elbows together.

8) practice hitting the couch or surface close to her with the belt.

9 Tell her to pick a number between 1+20 and tell her you are going to do the same.

10) Now tell the story, Tonight we are going to going to watch (Name the title of the video - Princess and whatever) I have added my number to your number and when they say the word Princess and it totals the our numbers..... I am going to bring the belt so hard down on your ass you are going to wet yourself.

 

Then play the movie - oh yes she will be watching intently and counting. Also get her to count out loud.

 

If you want to eventually spank her, this is up to you - she doesn't now that and play it up.

 

Make sure you get up and show her the belt, pause the movie, make a sandwich. Let the night play out. You can even say we are getting close and hit the couch again to practice.

 

The anticipation is frightening and if you play it out you can have her so worked up with out even touching her.

 

It's mental torture and if played out right can be very convincing. You can have her talk her way out of it and promise not to break the rules.

 

There are many options but don't cave and be believable.

 

That my two bits on brats.

 

Let me know your thoughts.

 

D.

 

Oh my god this is just what my dreams are made of

[tayiie]

Punishments.....

Hold in while I put on my sadist hat....lol.

Do you know the worst thing about punishments - the anticipation and fear of what is about to come. It should be laid out like a Hitchcock movie.

I will give you and example-this is was something I tried, it maybe a little jumpy as I try to remember the steps but here goes.

Give her an ultimatum - "one more (whatever) and you are going to get it. The brat brain goes that's a challenge and the little girl brain will be drawn in by the curiosity " get what". She's doomed.

Now when she crosses the line - you do the build up. " You know what - I have had it with you...had it , had it , had it !"

Pause

" I swore I would never do this but you have left me know choice - you are a brat incorrigible and just won't listen. Things need to change and tonight they will"

Pause again and let those sentences run through her head.

Now you start the game - you make it creative and tricky so she has no idea what's going on. Try something like this and make it in the form of instructions.

1) Go put your favorite movie in the VCR.

2) Go to the kitchen and get me a chair (something she can lay over)

3) Go to the bed room and get my leather belt.

4) Go back to the bed room and bring me a tie.

5) Go back and get another tie.

6) Go back and get another tie.

7) Now tie her wrists behind her back, her ankles together and her elbows together.

8) practice hitting the couch or surface close to her with the belt.

9 Tell her to pick a number between 1+20 and tell her you are going to do the same.

10) Now tell the story, Tonight we are going to going to watch (Name the title of the video - Princess and whatever) I have added my number to your number and when they say the word Princess and it totals the our numbers..... I am going to bring the belt so hard down on your ass you are going to wet yourself.

Then play the movie - oh yes she will be watching intently and counting. Also get her to count out loud.

If you want to eventually spank her, this is up to you - she doesn't now that and play it up.

Make sure you get up and show her the belt, pause the movie, make a sandwich. Let the night play out. You can even say we are getting close and hit the couch again to practice.

The anticipation is frightening and if you play it out you can have her so worked up with out even touching her.

It's mental torture and if played out right can be very convincing. You can have her talk her way out of it and promise not to break the rules.

There are many options but don't cave and be believable.

That my two bits on brats.

Let me know your thoughts.

D.

I would say that this probably wouldn't work on some. But on me it totally would! This is what I would always need or almost always if my daddy would want me to really not do something again x3 but that's me

[Guest Kittehmuffin]

....hmmm....it's that kind of mental treatment I really like too....not sure this would work on me. I'd find myself seeking it out.

[ktownDaddy]

Hello All,

 

It's been a while since I have had a chance to check in and read my messages. I see there has been a few comments on my post regarding punishment suggestions. I thank you all for your feed back and comments.

 

It's interesting how different we are and how a punishment to one personality is a reward to another. How rules that would guide one type of personality would be seen as a challenge and immediately broken by another.

 

It's these 7 varying personalities types and how they are blended that makes this dynamic so wonderful. It's been insightful for me to read your comments and how each of you would react to the same set of rules,parameters and circumstances.

 

Drew.

[Sweet-pea]

My daddy uses spanking (when I'm real bad not very often) he takes away my game or stuffie, he won't cuddle, no bed time tv show, lines, a quick shower instead of fun bath, silence, no toys (for x amount of minutes)

[Little Illy]

Punishments.....

 

Hold in while I put on my sadist hat....lol.

 

Do you know the worst thing about punishments - the anticipation and fear of what is about to come. It should be laid out like a Hitchcock movie.

 

I will give you and example-this is was something I tried, it maybe a little jumpy as I try to remember the steps but here goes.

 

Give her an ultimatum - "one more (whatever) and you are going to get it. The brat brain goes that's a challenge and the little girl brain will be drawn in by the curiosity " get what". She's doomed.

 

Now when she crosses the line - you do the build up. " You know what - I have had it with you...had it , had it , had it !"

 

Pause

 

" I swore I would never do this but you have left me know choice - you are a brat incorrigible and just won't listen. Things need to change and tonight they will"

 

Pause again and let those sentences run through her head.

 

Now you start the game - you make it creative and tricky so she has no idea what's going on. Try something like this and make it in the form of instructions.

 

 

1) Go put your favorite movie in the VCR.

2) Go to the kitchen and get me a chair (something she can lay over)

3) Go to the bed room and get my leather belt.

4) Go back to the bed room and bring me a tie.

5) Go back and get another tie.

6) Go back and get another tie.

7) Now tie her wrists behind her back, her ankles together and her elbows together.

8) practice hitting the couch or surface close to her with the belt.

9 Tell her to pick a number between 1+20 and tell her you are going to do the same.

10) Now tell the story, Tonight we are going to going to watch (Name the title of the video - Princess and whatever) I have added my number to your number and when they say the word Princess and it totals the our numbers..... I am going to bring the belt so hard down on your ass you are going to wet yourself.

 

Then play the movie - oh yes she will be watching intently and counting. Also get her to count out loud.

 

If you want to eventually spank her, this is up to you - she doesn't now that and play it up.

 

Make sure you get up and show her the belt, pause the movie, make a sandwich. Let the night play out. You can even say we are getting close and hit the couch again to practice.

 

The anticipation is frightening and if you play it out you can have her so worked up with out even touching her.

 

It's mental torture and if played out right can be very convincing. You can have her talk her way out of it and promise not to break the rules.

 

There are many options but don't cave and be believable.

 

That my two bits on brats.

 

Let me know your thoughts.

 

D.

 

Mental dominance, to me, is the ultimate form of dominance. Ergo, when a Dom is able to utilize a mental punishment (or reward, or anything) it speaks to his level of skill (again, for me). The above scenario seems to be directly involved with mental dominance because the little's mind is doing all the punishing.

 

Has that number been reached? Wait... did I miss count? Did he hit the couch because he was impatient, or *ready*? Omigod we are only twenty minutes into this movie... Is he pausing it AGAIN?! My nose itches, and I can't scratch it... Why can't I get off this chair. Uh oh, why did he stand up.... 

 

Our minds are our worst enemies (and strongest personas), so I think it is important to stimulate it as well as the physical...

 

....but that is just me...

[Rantanplan]

Hmmmm, am I different? The naughty behaviour is a request for punishment. You have to find the punishment your little likes most. Find the correct fetish and she will never think of leaving you. Of cause this won't stop her from doing naughty things again. But you have the happiest little of the world in exchange. If you keep on doing stuff that she hates, then you are slowly losing her. Little by little and with a definite result.

Girls, let me know, what you think.And be honest! Punishment can be nice. When it turns nasty, then you don't get the fantasy kick out of it. I guess many littles here haven't got enough experience to understand the importance of sustainable actions.

If there is a discrepancy between your little's fantasy and the real actions ... you lost her love. She only stays, because she fears loss. I don't like control by fear (unless she would tell me that this was her fetish).

[Sillylittlegirl]

Does anybody have any ideas for long distance punishment ideas?

[OwlMommy]

Does anybody have any ideas for long distance punishment ideas?

 

I was just going to ask about this!

I am currently in a testing stage with a long distance little and some of the punishments we have come up with are:

• Writing lines

  • I will not/I am sorry for… (whatever you have done) over and over again in a certain amount of time

• Taking away things

  • Here I will be placing trust in you to not use/do something for a specific amount of time

  • This will include TV, video games, or other fun things that you like to do.

• Early bedtime

  • This can be negotiated for extenuating circumstances when you have to do big boy things

 

The little I'm talking with has abandonment issues so ignoring him is not an option for his own mental health, and we are not yet in a comfortable place to be in a sexual relationship, so I was wondering if there were any more creative ones that anyone can think of? LDR punishments put a lot of trust in the little to actually do the punishment to them-self so photographic evidence is a must I believe.

Edited May 3, 2017 by OwlMommy

[BabyKittenPaws]

my daddy uses:

-going to bed early

-sitting in time out (facing the wall)

-No sweets

-No playtime (sexy play time and playing with my toys)

-No treats (going to get ice cream, going to the bookstore)