He thinks he's being too controlling, but I actually like it...

[BethyBoo]

My daddy has a hard time punishing me and telling me what to do. I actually really like it when he does these things. He thinks he's being too controlling, and I guess he just doesn't want to hurt me. He's really loving, and I love that about him. But I don't know how to make him realize that I don't like having to control everything in my life, and I want him to do that. I don't think he minds doing it, he just worries about whether or not I actually want him to.

[Guest Ginger]

Then tell him That's the easiest way to get it across, I think.

[Baby_squirrel]

Edited December 13, 2016 by Baby_squirrel

[Guest Princessaj]

Prepare your talk.

 

Sit down and make a list of exactly the things you like to be directed on, punished about and exactly how it makes you feel.

 

Be really detailed. Maybe even list some of the things you wish he would do/try that he hasn't.

 

Expressing your absolute feelings and desires should be like catnip to him.

 

Once you have gone over the list with him, give it to him so he can refer to it.

 

This way you are both on the same page. Hugs