Does having a baby mean my little time is over?

[Devine_Luna]

Does have child mean that I can be little no more?

[Guest MellieMelody]

no not at all, my daughter is going to be 4 and when i first had her i felt that way, but being a little is a part of who you are and what you need to be truly happy, so i dont believe their is an age or maturity level you can reach in the ddlg community i hope i've helped!

[Guest SoloFairy]

I have 3 kidlets. We have really close relationship and have tons of fun

[DarlinStarrz]

I have twin boys. Being a parent doesn't change who you are at your core. You can still be you.

[Daisies&Donuts]

No. But it can be scary being a patent for the first time - or the tenth. I didn't want to have children, couldn't go through with an abortion (I am not against them if this what is right for you, at the time I didn't feel it was righot for me). I now have a pretty good relationship with my kid, though we really completely different people. It gives me an excuse to act like a kid out in public - not that I wouldn't anyway. They're like your best playmate and always willing to spend time with you when they are little. Even when they are too old to like you being silly, you can be whatever you want alone with your partner. There are some parts of your relationship with your partner you don't share with your kids, it's OK if you don't want to share your little space with them

[Devine_Luna]

Thank you everyone!

[Littleboobookitty]

[Devine_Luna]

He doesn't like the whole ddlg thing. He says it's not his thing and does nothing for him.... so I don't get to it a lot and I'm worried with my little bit, I couldn't do it at all.

[Baby_squirrel]

Even if your partner doesn't want to participate or help you when your little who says can't enjoy being little with your baby? Littles can be little on their own without a DD/CG. Besides, playing with your baby....and their toys is a part of their growing up. I taught kindergarten for a year and most every child that said they loved their mom or dad most was because that parent played with them more! Indulge yourself in being little, more so when your baby is around.

 

No one says every parent has to be strict or serious, you mainly need to be responsible and caring. Plus you can use baby talk, no one says anything. If you want to dress up in little clothing and be matchy matchy with your baby only an idiot would be against that. Don't limit yourself. Taking care of a child can be difficult, but it can also be fun!

Edited December 13, 2016 by Baby_squirrel

[arilee]

im little with both of my kids i have a 8 and 1 year old. depending on which one im playing with depends on how little i get. when i plaay with both of them im somewhere in between. its great because no one thinks anything of it, they just see a mom playing with her kids. and my kids love it.

[LittleOne]

It makes things even better! My mom had me in her early teens and then she decided to have more kids in her mid 30s a few years ago. I knew I'd have to help out a lot and I thought acting big was a part of it. The great thing is, since you're kinda a kid too, you get to relate a lot. I you play and watch cartoons with them forever and I understand their behavior more. You can also have a better idea on what to do when they're in trouble (how to not scare them and give into agitation). You'll be the best mama ever as a little!