Should i give up on finding daddy?

[Burrito]

Thank you for all your comments, i really appreciated them!  Espeicallly thanks "Princess-P" & "Daisies&Donuts" reminding me that part of me needs to be grown up and mature!  This is very true, i can feel myself being stupid and naive whenever standing in front of an experienced man.

[Burrito]

I notice several comments about Daddy being single. May I ask why that seems to be a requisite?

 

I think that really depends on each individuals, and I know that some are fine with having an open relationship.  Just that for my case, as i'm looking for a long lasting relationship, and therefore i'd prefer a daddy who is single.  I hope that make sense.

[Daisies&Donuts]

There's nothinges wrong with preferences. If I were to try to draw conclusions I would say perhaps Moonwolf was considering the fact that some people respond well to a Daddy who is poly because it allows both Big and little to experience many relationships and takes the emotional pressure off *in some cases*. For other people it can be more emotionally stressful, though. To each their own. You know what you want and nothing wrong with it

[Moonwolf]

I think that really depends on each individuals, and I know that some are fine with having an open relationship. Just that for my case, as i'm looking for a long lasting relationship, and therefore i'd prefer a daddy who is single. I hope that make sense.

I know there are a great many people who are under the impression that to be poly means one night stands galore; I ascribe myself to different group. It is one I lovingly refer to as simultaneous serial monagomy. People enter our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. I have friends and then I have those whom I would deem poly worthy because I am committed to keeping them in my life for a lifetime. Tbh, that category is sparsely populated at the moment because of the general lack of accountability and contempt held by most for the need to keep one's word.

 

I digress; my point is this: don't dismiss those who aren't single out of hand unless a government sanctioned union is of utmost importance to you at this juncture. Too many people miss out on life's more interesting experiences because of their own preconceptions.

Edited December 13, 2016 by Moonwolf

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

I defiantly would not give up but like any relationship it takes time and patience

alot of littles try and rush in and find the first daddy they see and it ends horribly

youll find a daddy

[Guest Princessaj]

When I was younger, my age gap sometimes was 20-25 years older.

There are many older men that love the idea that they are the professor and you are the student.

I met many of them and learned so much about life, culture, sex, world affairs, history and business.

Yes and most of them wanted a nymphet, they decided when they wanted me.

 

The thing that no one has mentioned is the older you go,

-the more divorces they have been through 

-the more kids they have.

-the more bills they have.

 

Then you are dealing with

-ex-wives, split of community property and alimony

-their kids needing expensive things like braces, college, cars, child support and their aging parents....

-they may not want to have more kids with you

 

By some miracle, my bf is a year younger, never married and no kids. I have never been married and no kids.

 

You never know? Hugs

[Guest Youandme]

Try and first know your expectations and your desires. Sometimes things people take time to appear in our life. But we need to have the trust and be positive with it. Many of the beautiful relationships have started online and then 24*7 so first let yourself open up with not compromising on your values. Giving up and going for bf, ask self first if you can be happy and contented for having to change your inner feelings. Wait with trust and I assure the best will come. Patience is a great key.